Believe me when I say it's been a rollercoaster. We started dating back when I was in college and probably weeks before I got on the Trump train (Fall 2015). She'd come visit me every weekend and one time, I got into a conversation with my roommate and we both started to agree that Trump was a leader, loved his "alpha personality", and that we were excited to vote for him. This was probably around the time when they started attacking him for being racist and what not. My girlfriend cried and wasn't sure about the future of our relationship at this point.
After lots of discussions and sharing articles and trying to get through to her, she ended up not sending in her ballot in 2016, which she had filled out for Hillary.
Fast forward to 2020, we're still happily together and she always told me she'd never tell me who she votes for this election. A few of her friends know I'm a Trump supporter and it baffles them -- one went even as far as basically cutting my girlfriend out of her social circle (my girlfriend still blames me for this but whatever, overall not too bad).
This morning she decided to tell me she voted for DJT. I come here to tell the story because I promised her I wouldn't tell anyone... but I trust you pedes to not spread the word and I had to tell someone!
Why haven’t you married her in 5 years? Friend, ON this board we often talk about males not acting like men, perpetual dating is leading our country to perpetual adolescence. Take your relationship to the total commitment and embrace your authority and responsibility In marriage. I dated my wife for 7 months before engagement and married at 13 months, best decision of my life. Pray that God helps you embrace the authority he gives to men in marriage because with authority comes responsibility.
Yep, I did similar. All of the girls I dated were for a month or so usually and if they weren't wife material I didn't continue it. I think I married my wife after about 6 months of dating (we met in April and went to a courthouse in Oct, wedding in Dec).
Been married 21 years now. Best decision of my life.
Disagree with this. We also have a 50% divorce rate in this country that completely fucks over the men in the relationship, just because people get married due to social pressure despite not without knowing what the fuck they're doing and who they're marrying. Sure it can be wonderful, but it can also lead to broken homes and losing all your money.
Do not marry unless you are certain that she's the one!
I dated my wife for 6 years until we got married but during that time we did a lot together and went to marriage counseling and other relationship building material.
That said, if you think she's the one, then marry her. Since our marriage, our relationship has improved exponentially. But if you have any hesitations, then address them now - is it in your head? Is it something that you can actually resolve? Is it a deeper issue? Are others voicing concerns?
The Donald is great for political discussion, but not for dating advice. We have a lot of Coomers and simps on here who think AOC and Tulsi Gabbard are hot.
At the end of the day, you listen to your instincts. I will agree though that at a certain point you need to commit once there's no remaining obstacles, otherwise you're just avoiding making a decision.
Maybe he was waiting to make sure he didn't marry someone with TDS. Sounds like you know she's a keeper now. No need to keep waiting!
I've always said when you know, you know, this guys sounds like something in his spirit is saying it's not right.
Thanks Fren
This is why you don't shut liberals out of your life (That's a Lib move)
You just Red Pill them gently.
sometimes they just shut you out of theirs though.
You better put a ring on that and never let her go.
Well now you can be confident about proposing! You aren't dating a liberal any longer.
They grow up so fast....
she grew up in the city (I didn't, but live there now). Surrounded by all liberal friends her entire life. she's a minority... I guess it just takes a bit of talking and landing a good job making good money to knock sense into some people
We'll keep your secret, Fren ;)
My girlfriend also voted Trump. First time she has ever voted too
Doing God's Work.👉🇺🇸💓🇺🇸👉🍊😎👍💥
In 2016 my wife wouldn’t tell me who she voted for. It didn’t bother me at all. I guess she couldn’t keep it to herself anymore and eventually told me she voted Trump which I had already suspected.
Beautiful story
This is the way friends. You young guys redpilling your gfs are doing God’s work. You’re actually deprogramming them from the college brainwash.
I’ve been dumping red pills into my fiancé for years. She went from full Democrat to libertarian. I was a registered libertarian for a few years, so I don’t blame her. It’s a hard pill to get down. But I got her out of the left.
My story comes largely by introducing her to my conservative friends and family. Then sharing my opinions lightly for years. Once they understand that no conservatives aren’t evil racist pigs, the rest comes easy.
Good job brutha. Its ye and your girl against the world. Nobody else is on your team.