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posted ago by ModernKnight ago by ModernKnight +355 / -0

He was the last of his siblings, the last of a great generation, and was a huge influence on my life. As a child he spent nearly a year in the hospital due to Polio. This left him with severe issues in both legs. He always had to use either leg braces or a cane (later in life both, eventually 2 canes). Despite this limitation, he and one of his cousins taught themselves how to fly. They purchased an airplane together, and spent years making money on the side running tourists from Cincinnati to Miami, and from Miami to Havana. This was before Castro took over. They would then load their plane up with Cuban cigars to bring back. They would sell some, but most they would keep and smoke themselves. He married his high school sweetheart, but they were unable to have children. She died maybe 6 or 7 years back. It broke his heart to see her go. He treated my father and uncles as kids, and treated my cousins, siblings, and me as grandkids- he was basically an extra grandfather. Uncle Pete taught me how to shoot with an old bolt action .22. They moved out to a farmhouse in Indiana. He was still actively farming as of two years ago, growing sweet corn, potatoes, squash, peppers, cabbages, and whatever else he felt like growing. He inspired my father and me to start farming. He also repaired antique radios. His barn is still full of radio parts. He bred and raised German Shepherds for many years, and since giving up breeding he has always had at least one. His most recent was a German Shepherd/Wolf mix. His name was Aslan, and he was an absolutely beautiful dog. He was also huge, and for many years he kept Uncle Pete safe. Not too long ago Uncle Pete started having some health issues where the blood vessels in his feet broke down. Since his long stint in the hospital he has always hated hospitals, and swore he would never go into a nursing home, and would die at home. He got a serious infection in his foot, which required him to spend a couple weeks in the hospital. A few days before he went home Aslan died. His neighbor who was taking care of him found Aslan sitting beside the driveway, looking towards the road. He died waiting for Uncle Pete to come home. That was about 3 weeks ago. He returned home, and has been up and down in that time, was on an upswing, but then today he started having severe issues. They called my uncle to let him know, so I went to his shop to hold things down while he drove out to Uncle Pete's house. Uncle Pete died about ten minutes before he could get there. He died how he lived, in his own home and on his own terms. I'm sorry if this has been a bit rambling and difficult to read. I don't know the command to put lines between paragraphs, and I've been weeping this whole time. Those who are willing, say a prayer, and raise a glass with me for this incredible man. Uncle Pete, a good Christian man, a loving husband, dog breeder, farmer, pilot, radio repairman, cigar connoisseur, and patriot. He lived a full life doing what he loved, and bowed to no man's terms but his own. God, welcome Uncle Pete into your arms, and help me to be worthy of the legacy he created.

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kevinkevin 13 points ago +13 / -0

I'm sorry. It's hard to see them go. I read all of your post and I learned a little bit about a good man who lived a full life. I think he will live on within you.

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jughaid 8 points ago +8 / -0

Condolences, pede.

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Slick_Willys_Willy 8 points ago +8 / -0

I am so very sorry for your loss. He was a great man and you see blessed for all the time you had together. I'm sure you will carry on the legacy strong!

Praying for you and your family!

Much love Pede

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Harambe4K 7 points ago +7 / -0

Sorry for your loss

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Hangemh1gh 5 points ago +5 / -0

Sorry for your loss pede. Thank you for sharing about this good man. You honor him and us by doing so.

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12points 5 points ago +5 / -0

A well lived life, only if we can all live that well! Sincere sympathies, may God bless.

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Ladybug87 5 points ago +5 / -0

Condolences! I always get touched by posts like this one. I find it beautiful to see people writing like this about loved ones that passed away. May God receive your uncle's soul and give him eternal peace.

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Ferrous_Tarkus 5 points ago +5 / -0

Live free Pedes. Carry his legacy.

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Darthrift 4 points ago +4 / -0

I’m very sorry for your loss friend. I am very happy that you were able to have someone as special as uncle Pete in your life.

You and yours have my prayers to lessen your pain. He’s looking down on you from paradise.

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TheGrooter 4 points ago +4 / -0

Uncle Pete is the man.

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CovfefeFirst 4 points ago +4 / -0

He sounds like he lived great life and went out on his own terms. May he rest in peace.

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Cesare_Borgia 4 points ago +4 / -0

It sounds like he lived a great life as best he could. We can't really ask for more.

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Tawburgle2 4 points ago +4 / -0

I'm tearing up, I can tell how much you loved him. Sounded like a great guy. So sorry friend.

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SiggyStarPup 4 points ago +4 / -0

Raising a glass to Uncle Pete right now. May God and Aslan welcome him home. God bless..

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sdl5 3 points ago +3 / -0

Oh, I am so very sorry! 😓 Your Uncle Pete sounds like the perfect kind of family and example anyone could have.

I am just heartsick over the chain of events at the end, but you are right: he died on his terms and that counts for a lot in this life.

hugs and hoping you gain peace over your loss 💛

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BestTimeToBAlive 3 points ago +3 / -0

God bless you. And God bless your Uncle Pete and your whole family.

(also, if you do 2 returns/enters, it will keep the line separation. 1 will not work)

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N0Brakes 3 points ago +3 / -0

Your Uncle Pete lives on through and other family members. Sharing life with such a great family man is a gift from God. May he and his values live on forever through your family. God Bless you all.

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outlaw5067 3 points ago +3 / -0

I'm sorry for your loss. He sounds like a great man!

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stonetears4fears 2 points ago +2 / -0

Thanks for sharing your memories! I’ll say a prayer for Uncle Pete tonight.

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gaijin_ronin 2 points ago +2 / -0

To Uncle Pete. He may not have had the best use of his legs, but his great stones kept him standing tall over the years. Pete is off now on another adventure. Tip of hat for doing it your way sir.

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BS4thewin 2 points ago +2 / -0

Sorry for your loss. Always remember the good. Will pray for your consolation.

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NonyaDB 2 points ago +2 / -0

Godspeed, Uncle Pete. Fellow American and patriot.
May we all follow his fine example and die exactly as we live - on our terms.

Early next year when I go land mobile and start permanently traveling the United States I plan to get a German Shepherd myself for company and security and I think "Pete" will be a great name for him.

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neverreddit 2 points ago +2 / -0

What a beautiful tribute. Thank you for sharing. I feel better knowing about Uncle Pete and the image you painted is so vivid that I think he’ll stay with me a long time. Live to make him proud.

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BeMyFren 2 points ago +2 / -0

He has a wonderful nephew. Losing people is so painful but we get to rejoice in his life through your stories of him. Thank you for sharing. I’m wiping tears from my eyes and hope my nephews think I’m half the man your uncle was. God bless.

Spez: Aslan was the Lion/god in The lion, the witch and the wardrobe. One of my favorite childhood books. :)

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chadenfreude_ 2 points ago +2 / -0

My okay uncle died recently, and I was sad. Can’t imagine how I’d have felt if he was ‘great’.

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IlxTheGreat 2 points ago +2 / -0

Don't remember who said it but, "A life well lived, is it's own reward." Sounds like your Uncle Pete lived well. You're there to carry on and it'll be like he's still here.

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nrnspfalz 2 points ago +2 / -0

He sounds like he was a wonderful man. Sorry for your loss.

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EpicTrump 2 points ago +2 / -0

To a life well lived and a legacy that will never die. He sounds like a giant of a man. You were blessed to have him in your life for so many years. 🍻🐕🙏