I PROMISED MY GIRLFRIEND I'D RETIRE BUT, HOW CAN I IGNORE MY CALL OF DUTY?
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As for your girl sir we must be vigilant you know, they have the control they have because they fully understand how MOST people want to fit in & be accepted. This is not the American way however, we've just gone there cuz of all the influence coming at us from all sides. At times, I feel desperate cuz I know the ONLY reason anyone isn't for GEOTUS is because of the information. Till they are held to account some will not see clearly & I dont blame em. My fiancé I & I have somehow flipped. He was a southern gentleman conservative Republican from TX. I was a bleeding heart pro-choice Puerto Rican artist from Florida. The more & more I become firm in my new conservative pro Trump pro-life patriotic skin the further he slides into the dark nonsense. So I feel ur pain. If you solve this problem PLLEEEAASSSE help a fellow pede out
I would say just don't talk about politics with him. The more he thinks you're going extreme in one direction, the more he'll put his shield up and go the other way.
Kind of a shitty relationship to be in.
Eventually it will break. Might as well plan on cutting ties now or sit down and have a discussion where they can meet at some common ground.
Once TDS sets in, you really can't cure it. I've lost good friends because of it. They truly believe I'm a white supremacist Nazi who wants to kill all minorities while at the same time excluding the fact that I'm half mexican who's mother came from Mexico and I'm married to an Asian woman who left her communist country to be an American.
I've dealt with the mental gymnastics first hand and it's really not worth the effort to save them. They truly believe you are the enemy. It's sad.
We don't well at least I try not to. It's gotten very bizarre actually. It doesn't matter what I talk about he thinks it's all about the same thing, CONSPIRACIES... Soo frustrating! He is very competitive & has dug into "everything u say & think is wrong cuz ur nuts" about literally everything!. I gave up a long time ago & now just wait. I know slowly but surly he will see things the way they are.
It doesn't change the fact that as a data collector that loves discussing ideas, understanding anything & debating all topics I no longer have an equal to brain poke. With everything I have considered since 2015 it has left me at times desperate for a firm footing in reality. Also, as someone very comfortable in my skin & in my company social encounters have never been my cup of tea however in all of this lets just say the unfamiliar notion of loneliness has become the only constant in my present state of being.
I will admit when he shows me a meme or an article or when he tries to explain a new truth that someone else presented to him 1 that I had attempted to years before a lil fire grows in my belly. I have never been 1 for I told you so's & although many will be due I only look forward to one. And that one appears closer & closer by the day. He is a good man. He literally thinks I'm nuts & yet has supported & protected me throughout this journey. I just get sad because I wish we coud have done it together.
First thing is to make sure you are in the relationship as equals. You don't need him to support you and he don't need you to support him, but you support each other out of desire not need. If that is the case then next time he has a stance on a topic that contradicts yours ask him to help you understand how he came to that position. Don't tell him he is wrong or misinformed just accept his explanation and go about your day. But remember everything he said, research what he tells you at a later time a day or so later, when you find proof his position is based on lies and deceit that he believed simply go "hey hun come look at this, Remember the other day you said ....... This says ........... and put the first cracks in his bubble. Rinse and repeat over weeks months years if need be just get his explanation destroy it politely and nonchalantly. Avoid making it confrontational. This will either make him realize the things he believes are false and begin to look for the truth on his own or he will descend into the Void in which case its time to move on