Kind of a shitty relationship to be in.

Eventually it will break. Might as well plan on cutting ties now or sit down and have a discussion where they can meet at some common ground.

Once TDS sets in, you really can't cure it. I've lost good friends because of it. They truly believe I'm a white supremacist Nazi who wants to kill all minorities while at the same time excluding the fact that I'm half mexican who's mother came from Mexico and I'm married to an Asian woman who left her communist country to be an American.

I've dealt with the mental gymnastics first hand and it's really not worth the effort to save them. They truly believe you are the enemy. It's sad.