I believe in what the Bible says regarding the act of homosexuality being sexually immoral (Not the desire/attraction or temptation. Jesus was tempted, so temptation is not the same thing as acting on it). However, so is adultery, fornication, etc. and it irks me when ppl try to elevate homosexuality as a "worse" sin. Sin is sin and it all causes separation between us and God. I have my own struggles, temptations, and shortcomings, and sexual purity is VERY difficult in our current world. Ultimately, I don't believe in judging anyone else because I don't know their life, what their relationship with God is or isn't, or what their personal beliefs are. So I hold what the Bible says as applicable to me. God says not to commit adultery, so I don't. He says not to lay with a woman the way a man lays with her, so I don't, but I am FAR from perfect. I do my best, but I fall short every day, but Jesus is my savior and His mercy and grace is sufficient. I hope I explained that well enough and didn't hurt anyone's feelings. I really do just look at it as what God wants for ME, and I follow His teachings and commandments out of my faithfulness to Him, but the greatest two commandments are to love God and to love one another. So I do my best to show love, kindness and compassion and not judgment. "Let He who is without sin cast the first stone."

I just realized I never answered your question about gay marriage. I actually don't like that the government has anything to do with marriage at all. Signing a piece of paper did not make me married. Taking vows before God and witnesses and later physically consummating our union is what made my husband and I married. If the government isn't involved at all, then everyone is free to do whatever they want with whatever ceremony they want and the whole debate is moot. And for me that goes back to we live in America and consenting adults should be able to do whatever they want to do. Same with plural marriage. If everyone is a consenting adult, I don't see the problem from a free society point of view. Child brides/adults being forced into that life is a whole other matter.