I too live in the most cucked state in the US. Having grown in potentially the most cucked area of CA my entire life I know it will be an uphill battle to flip candidate elections red; however, its not just about the candidate elections. While I advocate R wherever and whenever I can, the real difference that I have been able to make in my community is through the local ballot measures which due to being an inherently apolitical issue (no direct R or D) can be influenced to make the state better (I have been a part of campaigns that win ballot measures against the DemonRats with <1% margins in the most cucked of areas).

That said, you should do what will make your life happy and not worry about turning CA red. The best thing you can do for America is find a place to build a family and future while advocating through your first amendment right on how you would like to see your community improve.