I hope you both kind find a new beginning. I used to tell people I have been married 4 times to the same man. Not literally, but acorns have to fall and die for a new oak to sprout. I'm glad I did it with the same man and we've been together this long instead of being miserable and then falling for the trap of divorce. Hard things are miserable to work through, but it's worth it. Godspeed.
I hate to say this, but my husband had to point this out to me before. Realizing I could lose him was a wake up call. I hope you tell her at a non-emotional time, so she has a chance to realize how serious this has become. It's easy to criticize someone, but when you stop and recognize how much good they bring into your life, you remember again how much there is to be grateful for.
Are you me? Did I post this while on DMT talking to the serpent in another life form? If not then this is soo weird that we should be so much alike and not be the same person.
WAS married.
I hope you both kind find a new beginning. I used to tell people I have been married 4 times to the same man. Not literally, but acorns have to fall and die for a new oak to sprout. I'm glad I did it with the same man and we've been together this long instead of being miserable and then falling for the trap of divorce. Hard things are miserable to work through, but it's worth it. Godspeed.
I hate to say this, but my husband had to point this out to me before. Realizing I could lose him was a wake up call. I hope you tell her at a non-emotional time, so she has a chance to realize how serious this has become. It's easy to criticize someone, but when you stop and recognize how much good they bring into your life, you remember again how much there is to be grateful for.
Are you me? Did I post this while on DMT talking to the serpent in another life form? If not then this is soo weird that we should be so much alike and not be the same person.