Tbh with most people theres little hope. The cant be told the truth, they need to be shown it. By all means try, but 99% of people will never change their minds edit: through debate
I'm really not the person to give advice on being polite but one thing I'll point out is the probability of "you're not being respectful" actually being a last ditch effort at saving face and playing the victim. Sounds like a defense mechanism.
argue the point, dont try to argue the person or their personality. if you remove the emotions from their argument and get to the meat of it, we almost always come out on top.
Example. this is a real argument i had with a liberal.
Trump is a racist, egotist and unstable for international politics. Biden is much better hand and can lead better.
i just replied with Bidens record vs Trump.
crime bills vs prison reform,
several wars vs none,
drones vs diplomacy (even with Kim Jun un),
selling out to China vs taking them on.
liberals always attack personality to rile you up and claim they won. ignore the noise. just address the issues.
Problem with "I rather have X for 4 years," becomes problematic, you allow it to happen cause you hate the other side more, those "4 years" becomes 8, becomes 12, becomes 16....
And by the time you're "fed up" no one is there to defend you, cause you're now the remaining target.
You may find it helpful to watch some video tutorials on Neuro-Linguistic Programming, particularly the ones dealing with Ericksonian language patterns.
Remain calm and steady, do not raise your voice or get excited. Allow them to do the great majority of the talking. Counter their points but do not attack their position directly. People do not change their point of view by being pushed and shoved. You need to walk with them as a guide and enable them to think out a debate internally. You can not force them to swallow the pill you can only give them the choice.
be their friend, let them redpill themselves. show them things thier bubble filters out. let them ask qs. admit your doubts. show them your reasonableness. acknowlege when they make a good point. drop subtle hints. be nice.
Repeatedly saying someone you're trying to redpill is 'brainwashed' is certainly not going to go over well my friend. It's best to pretend a bit liberal and go from there.
I tried yesterday to a decent guy I know to convince him this election was a sham. It was pointless. My advice is don’t waste your time. You could produce evidence up the wazoo and they will believe what they want to
Present factual evidence, but people hate to be wrong. Worse yet, admit they are wrong.
Continue to repeat your message in a way that the listener can relate to.
At the end of the day, all you can do is continue to plant seeds. And ultimately, they will have to red pill themselves, unknowing that you were the one actual responsible.
Tbh with most people theres little hope. The cant be told the truth, they need to be shown it. By all means try, but 99% of people will never change their minds edit: through debate
Here is my article on it: https://thedonald.win/p/11Q8EcEMNV/how-to-convert-normies--a-bit-la/
they are called snowflakes for a reason. Very fragile. Don't even bother.
I'm really not the person to give advice on being polite but one thing I'll point out is the probability of "you're not being respectful" actually being a last ditch effort at saving face and playing the victim. Sounds like a defense mechanism.
Keep shoving the red pills down their throats!
You can leadja horse to water but you can't make it drink
argue the point, dont try to argue the person or their personality. if you remove the emotions from their argument and get to the meat of it, we almost always come out on top.
Example. this is a real argument i had with a liberal. Trump is a racist, egotist and unstable for international politics. Biden is much better hand and can lead better.
i just replied with Bidens record vs Trump. crime bills vs prison reform, several wars vs none, drones vs diplomacy (even with Kim Jun un), selling out to China vs taking them on.
liberals always attack personality to rile you up and claim they won. ignore the noise. just address the issues.
Problem with "I rather have X for 4 years," becomes problematic, you allow it to happen cause you hate the other side more, those "4 years" becomes 8, becomes 12, becomes 16....
And by the time you're "fed up" no one is there to defend you, cause you're now the remaining target.
You may find it helpful to watch some video tutorials on Neuro-Linguistic Programming, particularly the ones dealing with Ericksonian language patterns.
Their emotions don't care about your facts. Use emotional tactics to change their minds.
Target wedge issues then you pace and lead them, humor or you have to do full cult deprogramming by discrediting their leader.
Joe Biden being more popular than Barack Obama by almost 10 million votes.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MaEL0JJaHkk
Getting an third party expert opinion to break it down for them. If they are rational minded.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Em0R9DRSbIE
Remain calm and steady, do not raise your voice or get excited. Allow them to do the great majority of the talking. Counter their points but do not attack their position directly. People do not change their point of view by being pushed and shoved. You need to walk with them as a guide and enable them to think out a debate internally. You can not force them to swallow the pill you can only give them the choice.
be their friend, let them redpill themselves. show them things thier bubble filters out. let them ask qs. admit your doubts. show them your reasonableness. acknowlege when they make a good point. drop subtle hints. be nice.
Repeatedly saying someone you're trying to redpill is 'brainwashed' is certainly not going to go over well my friend. It's best to pretend a bit liberal and go from there.
I question your premise that these people can be persuaded by rational debate.
I tried yesterday to a decent guy I know to convince him this election was a sham. It was pointless. My advice is don’t waste your time. You could produce evidence up the wazoo and they will believe what they want to
Present factual evidence, but people hate to be wrong. Worse yet, admit they are wrong.
Continue to repeat your message in a way that the listener can relate to.
At the end of the day, all you can do is continue to plant seeds. And ultimately, they will have to red pill themselves, unknowing that you were the one actual responsible.
Good luck
I wrote just such an article. You can get a little raw, as you will see, but it is an art form.
You provided way too many texts my friend. People cant keep up with that much information. You need to spoon feed them a little at a time.
Watch Ben Shapiro. See how he sets up the 'common ground' tactics before blasting them with facts. He has a lot of great techniques.