There's a much more obvious one:

Hillary conceded and we accepted that. Then Jill came up with a campaign to do recounts, and we stood by and let her do it, as it was her right, even if many of us criticized her.

There's no criticism of Trump demanding recounts and investigations. There's abject rejection of that and insistence that the election is over and it's all parlor tricks and that he lost no matter what.

That's the difference.