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Lamech_Slade 70 points ago +70 / -0

If it's possible for you to talk to her, ask her to beg the doctor to approve u to enter. I know someone in a similar situation a few weeks ago and a good doctor literally came down and escorted the father into the hospital past security. Praying for you and your family.

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ifififififokiedokie [S] 54 points ago +55 / -1

She is not like this, won’t put in an act for these fuxking people. But she won’t forget either. I hope they all burn in hell.

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ChocolateEvryday 45 points ago +45 / -0

My wife had a miscarriage years before COVID. If it provides you any comfort to know, she was taken out of the room for various scans and tests without me even back then. It fucking sucked and the doctors basically stare at you bc there's not much they can do to "fix" it. I really feel for you both. It was the lowest point in my life. Take care of you and her bc mentally it will fuck you up.

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Mondongus 26 points ago +26 / -0

Same here more or less. I broke down into tears when I saw her again, first and last time I’ve cried since I was a wee lad.

Stay strong op and be there for your wife, you’ll see her soon. Praying for you.

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Chickapede 3 points ago +3 / -0

Your tears meant more to her than you will ever know. It told and showed her that she wasn't alone.

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Gyrfalcon 3 points ago +3 / -0

`the doctors basically stare at you bc there's not much they can do to "fix" it.

Individual doctors don't write hospital policy. They can't even discuss it with you. They could lose their ability to have hospital access for their patients.

/r/ifififififokiedokie don't be reckless. You need to be there when your wife comes home. Be there for her. Pray for peace. You will always remember this child, but the grief will ease with time.

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ChocolateEvryday 3 points ago +3 / -0

I don't think you understood what I was saying. Doesn't matter bc you're just trying to make a point that nobody cares about. "Fix" it as in the baby is dying and they can't do shit. Nobody gives a shit about the doctors in this scenario.

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AtticusDenzil -28 points ago +1 / -29

I mean do you want to follow your wife through all the scanning rooms? And how the fuck would you help exactly with your presence?

BLM being allowed to riot in the streets is one thing, but you're in the other extreme of retardation.

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ChocolateEvryday 11 points ago +11 / -0

Yes. Bc she was having an emotional breakdown from losing our child. And seeing the baby on an ultrasound or rather the "tissue" as they called it, was fucking brutal to have in your face alone with a stranger in the room. Don't be dense. You're making an ass out of yourself.

Don't equate a man wanting to support his wife in one of her most difficult moments with fucking BLM. That comment is so retarded.

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TacticalWitdotcom 7 points ago +7 / -0

That wasn't what he was saying. Stop being a jackass.

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ifififififokiedokie [S] 6 points ago +6 / -0

YOU HAVE TO GO BACK YOU DIRTY COMMIE

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LUXURY_USERNAME 5 points ago +5 / -0

they will

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BlueEyeDevil 2 points ago +2 / -0

It's not the doctors decision. It's administration, usually house supervisor at night. During the day, it's probably some MBA who is sitting at home while those of us healthcare workers are there taking care of patients.