As a dinosaur who remembers life before the internet (A/S/L?), I can attest that it has completely ruined coupling and what used to be called healthy relationships. Sorry, kids, dating was MUCH better before you were born.
As a women in her mid 20’s. I have given up on dating. Nudes is a huge factor in that, I refuse to send them and guys 9 out 10 times will either ghost or beg for the nude. Have actually have had a few guys offer to pay and the answer will still be no.
The other reason in me giving up on dating is guys straight up lying to get into bed. First guy I dated pretended to be a Trump supporter actually.
I'd suggest trying to find people in person through activities or some kind of local community. Finding people online seems good because it's so difficult to locate people with common interests, but it's been a disaster (and plummeting rates of people staying together reflect that) because there are unconscious cues that are important that can't be sensed if you don't meet in person. Trust your instincts on that one and don't "reason" yourself into liking someone that solely sounds good in print.
Having a shared community also tends to make relationships last better, but local communities have already been wrecked in most places by social engineering, so who knows on that one.
And then there's just the stark reality that most kids today come from wrecked or dysfunctional homes and were raised by public schools and media because their single parent was too busy, so it's difficult to meet a young man who knows anything about taking care of himself or a relationship or home, let alone being a good spouse or father.
Find guys here who are local, there are tons of intelligent, patriotic single men who would jump at the chance to date a women who has even basic decency.
I remember ASL back on the old chat rooms in the early 90s. Those were the days, but I know you're talking earlier than that.
On a side note I watch a lot of old TV shows like from the 60s, and I generally find the women back then a lot more attractive than today. Back then they all wore nice dresses and didn't have any metal in their face, didn't have too much makeup on, nice hair styles, etc... Today it can look like the circus is in town when you see a group of girls in their 20s.
I beg to differ. I much rather going on a date now. We split the bill. I don't worry that she only wants my money. We fuck after a few dates so I see how compatible we are straight away without losing time. If she's the right person I build a healthy and stable relationship.
The old-fashioned way was that the man pays for dinner, and there's no ficki ficki til you're married. In 2020, this sounds absurd. But there's a reason why marriage rates have never been lower (and STD rates never higher).
What's the point of buying the cow when the milk is on Tinder?
The old-fashioned way was that the man pays for dinner, and there's no ficki ficki til you're married.
But that's absolutely fucking terrible for men!
What if I marry a bitch, and then it turns out that she only wanted my money and she's awful in bed or she has an ugly pussy?
But there's a reason why marriage rates have never been lower
Because it's not a necessity. One can have a family without involving the government in it.
(and STD rates never higher).
LOL what? Where did you get this information? Syphilis or hepatitis used to be widespread, as nobody used protection.
I bet today's STDs are much, much less - especially if you remove homos which represent the 90% of HIV transmissions.
What's the point of buying the cow when the milk is on Tinder?
Creating a family is a different thing from fucking. If you marry someone only because you want to have sex you are making a terrible mistake.
Creating a family is a different thing from fucking.
Nope. They are designed to be one and the same by God. Trying to separate the two creates degeneracy and misery. If you haven't learned that yet, you'll learn the hard way later.
As a dinosaur who remembers life before the internet (A/S/L?), I can attest that it has completely ruined coupling and what used to be called healthy relationships. Sorry, kids, dating was MUCH better before you were born.
All by design.
Yeah. To the younger women reading this, there was a time when 'send nudes' was NOT a thing. Sorry we fucked everything up.
As a women in her mid 20’s. I have given up on dating. Nudes is a huge factor in that, I refuse to send them and guys 9 out 10 times will either ghost or beg for the nude. Have actually have had a few guys offer to pay and the answer will still be no.
The other reason in me giving up on dating is guys straight up lying to get into bed. First guy I dated pretended to be a Trump supporter actually.
Before the internet, men had to WORK to see a women naked. You had to hustle. Even the peep shows cost a quarter.
Now you can watch hi-def 3-D lesbian gangbang porn while you're pooping at work, and nobody realizes how strange that is. What a world.
I'd suggest trying to find people in person through activities or some kind of local community. Finding people online seems good because it's so difficult to locate people with common interests, but it's been a disaster (and plummeting rates of people staying together reflect that) because there are unconscious cues that are important that can't be sensed if you don't meet in person. Trust your instincts on that one and don't "reason" yourself into liking someone that solely sounds good in print.
Having a shared community also tends to make relationships last better, but local communities have already been wrecked in most places by social engineering, so who knows on that one.
And then there's just the stark reality that most kids today come from wrecked or dysfunctional homes and were raised by public schools and media because their single parent was too busy, so it's difficult to meet a young man who knows anything about taking care of himself or a relationship or home, let alone being a good spouse or father.
Wow that's a new one. How did you find out? Did he ask his bull to fuck you for him?
Find guys here who are local, there are tons of intelligent, patriotic single men who would jump at the chance to date a women who has even basic decency.
I remember ASL back on the old chat rooms in the early 90s. Those were the days, but I know you're talking earlier than that.
On a side note I watch a lot of old TV shows like from the 60s, and I generally find the women back then a lot more attractive than today. Back then they all wore nice dresses and didn't have any metal in their face, didn't have too much makeup on, nice hair styles, etc... Today it can look like the circus is in town when you see a group of girls in their 20s.
I beg to differ. I much rather going on a date now. We split the bill. I don't worry that she only wants my money. We fuck after a few dates so I see how compatible we are straight away without losing time. If she's the right person I build a healthy and stable relationship.
The old-fashioned way was that the man pays for dinner, and there's no ficki ficki til you're married. In 2020, this sounds absurd. But there's a reason why marriage rates have never been lower (and STD rates never higher).
What's the point of buying the cow when the milk is on Tinder?
But that's absolutely fucking terrible for men! What if I marry a bitch, and then it turns out that she only wanted my money and she's awful in bed or she has an ugly pussy?
Because it's not a necessity. One can have a family without involving the government in it.
LOL what? Where did you get this information? Syphilis or hepatitis used to be widespread, as nobody used protection.
I bet today's STDs are much, much less - especially if you remove homos which represent the 90% of HIV transmissions.
Creating a family is a different thing from fucking. If you marry someone only because you want to have sex you are making a terrible mistake.
You bet wrong. STD's are at a record high, as of last year at least.
And yet the rate of young Americans marrying and creating families has never been lower. A terrible mistake has, indeed, been made.
Nope. They are designed to be one and the same by God. Trying to separate the two creates degeneracy and misery. If you haven't learned that yet, you'll learn the hard way later.
Ok. It's obvious you're either 13, or have never gotten laid in your life. Grow up
Building your foundation on shit like you just described does not lead to a healthy relationship.
Why not? And what's a "healthy" relationship?