Appreciating a woman's attractiveness isn't toxic at all, man. You can appreciate her body and her mind, at the same time or at different times, and it's perfectly okay to say so.

The only thing toxic would be if someone told her to just shut up and be pretty, which literally no one is doing. Don't fall into their traps.

For fuck's sake, the people talking about toxic masculinity are the same people promoting that all women should fuck whoever they want at all times and all be sex workers for empowerment. All we're doing is saying how much we'd like to be in a monogamous sexual relationship with this woman because she's beautiful, brilliant, and courageous. WTF is toxic about that?