You're more likely to find a woman who shares you culture if she also shares your race. That's not hard and fast and depends on individuals of course, but broadly speaking, it's absolutely true. To deny that is absurd.
I'm not denying this, just saying that since my next door neighbour who grew up in this town like me and is black, her parents being from Cote d'Ivoire, but goes to the same church I go and even has the same accent I have, could be a nice choice to build a strong family, certainly better than a crazy liberal lady from Venice I briefly dated lol.
EXACTLY, that is the meaning of the proverb I cited too, it means that people who grow up in the same community end up having similar values, and like you can buy cattle from someone in your town with less worries, because you know who raised them and if they were raised well, same goes if you find a wife in your town.
And no I haven't really found anyone lol, the girl I mentioned is based but is too young for me (She is 18, I am 29) and already engaged, I'm happy that she is my sister's and my friend tho.
Oh yeah, of course. And there are people from surprising backgrounds who also make good choices for a spouse, depending on whether their eyes are open or not. As much as it may have come off like it, I in no way have issues with mixed race couples that are laid out on good values and shared culture. I just have an issue with people (not necessary you, but a couple within this post) who are unnecessarily hostile towards "white women" and absurdly claim that the majority of them are "against white men." I tend to think people who hold those sentiments are losers who are looking for someone else to blame.
That sounds very wise. And attraction is important, but not in a superficial checking-off-boxes way, like too many young guys think. Looks change... for everyone.
You're more likely to find a woman who shares you culture if she also shares your race. That's not hard and fast and depends on individuals of course, but broadly speaking, it's absolutely true. To deny that is absurd.
I'm not denying this, just saying that since my next door neighbour who grew up in this town like me and is black, her parents being from Cote d'Ivoire, but goes to the same church I go and even has the same accent I have, could be a nice choice to build a strong family, certainly better than a crazy liberal lady from Venice I briefly dated lol.
To deny this is wrong, that was my point.
Sounds like you might have found someone who shares the same values.
That is THE most important thing.
Sharing the same, or similar, culture is important...but mostly because of the value structure.
Also it depends on how one defines culture.
EXACTLY, that is the meaning of the proverb I cited too, it means that people who grow up in the same community end up having similar values, and like you can buy cattle from someone in your town with less worries, because you know who raised them and if they were raised well, same goes if you find a wife in your town.
And no I haven't really found anyone lol, the girl I mentioned is based but is too young for me (She is 18, I am 29) and already engaged, I'm happy that she is my sister's and my friend tho.
Oh yeah, of course. And there are people from surprising backgrounds who also make good choices for a spouse, depending on whether their eyes are open or not. As much as it may have come off like it, I in no way have issues with mixed race couples that are laid out on good values and shared culture. I just have an issue with people (not necessary you, but a couple within this post) who are unnecessarily hostile towards "white women" and absurdly claim that the majority of them are "against white men." I tend to think people who hold those sentiments are losers who are looking for someone else to blame.
I search for a based conservative christian woman first of all.
Everything else is second, despite what others may think.
If I want to raise a family It needs to grow on solid foundations.
That sounds very wise. And attraction is important, but not in a superficial checking-off-boxes way, like too many young guys think. Looks change... for everyone.