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Tseliteiv [S] 5 points ago +6 / -1

Kids and young adults in my experience aren't learning how to formulate true emotional connections with people. I see it far too often where people in their 20s don't want serious relationships because that would restrict them sexually. The problem is that sex has become the focus not love.

Unfortunately, young people don't realize what they're missing.

The reason, IMO, that men develop erectile dysfunction, while porn use contributes, is actually something else entirely. It's a lack of true attraction. Society tells men they are supposed to be attracted to a naked woman for the sole reason that she's a naked woman but in reality, that's not what attracts men to women. The sex most people are having nowadays is basically no better emotionally than masturbation, except it's worse because you don't get an opportunity to fantasize in your mind like with porn as you do with rl sex.

In order for men to truly get turned on by sex, a woman has to truly give herself to the man, something young women don't know how to do because they themselves have become too much like men. For straight heterosexual guys, these women are actually not tapping into the man's feminine attraction part of their brain but are tapping into the part of the brain that's telling them the woman is a man with boobs and a vagina.

Porn teaches people to focus on entirely the wrong thing in life, which shouldn't be sex but the actual emotional connection with the person, which then sex happens and if the emotional connection is there then the sex is way better. If a man has sexual dysfunction that isn't limited due to physical constraints, give him a true submissive feminine woman who has shown genuine comfort and affection to the man as well as the woman having genuine emotional vulnerability and I guarantee you'll see the guy's dick get hard.

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VTubersAreWorthTheSi 2 points ago +2 / -0

I can back that up using my self as an example.

I started watching porn at 10 or 11.

I would masturbate 1-5 times a day.

I knew I didn't want a girlfriend because all I wanted was sex.

So to not be a dick in my eyes and noy date a girl to just habe sex, I hired a prostitute.

And she couldn't get me off, went at it for over a hour and nothing.

And she asked if I watched porn I said yes and she said that's why you can't cum.

And being the dumbass I was I went through 6 more prostitutes and I had the same issue with each of them even though they were very attractive women (spent more money than I wish to admit)

The only woman that has been able to get me is my wife. And it is the emotional portion of it. That connection we have is what makes it enjoyable.

I thank God he restored me and helped me change because life was worse before.

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Tseliteiv [S] 0 points ago +1 / -1

Dude you're supposed to pop some cialis before you bang prostitutes... n00b.

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VTubersAreWorthTheSi 2 points ago +2 / -0

I could stay hard, they just couldn't make me cum lol.

Call me EVER HARD

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Tseliteiv [S] 1 point ago +2 / -1

This is like absolutely ideal for banging prostitutes... well except for the blueballs at the end. Better than coming in like 3 minutes after paying for an hour lmao