If they try to be your friend: lawyer.
If they try to reason with you: lawyer.
If they try to guilt or shame you: lawyer.
If they threaten to arrest you: lawyer.
If they threaten to call in backup to drag you out: lawyer.
If they do arrest you and drag you out get a lawyer and sue the police department.
The time to argue is through your lawyer during the lawsuit. This is how you win.
Never talk to a cop without a lawyer present. NEVER.
Ignore this advice and you deserve the bad things that WILL happen to you.
Any competent attorney won't allow you to talk to the police at all. The only time I have been with into a police station with a client was to drag them out of an interview room. Don't talk, period.