I’m sorry but it’s not loving to purposely antagonize your spouse. If you two know there’s a topic you just don’t agree on, why would she use Christmas and likely a day off of work to specifically let you know how your political views are more important than their happiness and peace this Christmas. She spent time and money picking out these gifts, gleefully imagining your displeasure on Christmas - that’s fucked up

I hate fucking passive aggressive people - it’s Christmas let it go bitch