Fairness and "fairness" are two separate things. Muh fairness is definitely a problem. Entitlement is a plague upon the earth.

I agree though. You should at least be a tax payer owning some kind of property. At least a car, to show you can handle responsibility of some kind.

I've never wanted kids. As long as I can remember. Me and my husband have talked about fostering, which is a slim chance, but adoption is likely not in our future. My goals align more with helping other young adults get on their feet, than raising a child. I couldn't really care less about genetics or passing on the family name. I've also been lectured endlessly about other adults on how I'll regret not having children. We all have our own calling. I just know kids ain't it for me.

I do understand where you're coming from though. For most people kids are probably a logical life progression. Just ain't for me.

Hope you have a great one!