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BlackJack 4 points ago +4 / -0

Have you tried HMG? is your sperm count or quality low? Are you timing ejaculation with the fertility window close to ovulation?

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Undo1913 [S] 1 point ago +1 / -0

Got tested. Swimmers are fine. We bang like rabbits 5 days prior to ovulation and during. It’s crazy. Fertility doc can’t explain it.

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vitalsine 4 points ago +4 / -0

It is no secret that birth control will reduce chances of successful pregnancy. It is no secret, but it doesn't seem to be widely talked about as bc is forced on younger and younger girls. Every medicine salesman (doctor) you ask will claim it has no effect, but every woman with fertility issues will say that it does. For some reason bc is treated as a panacea for all hormonal and ovarian issues. I am very sorry this has happened to you. My mother forced this hpv vaccine on me and I have worried about it since. The over vaccination needs to stop.

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Undo1913 [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

Agreed. Also, “medicine salesman.” Kek. So true. I also like the term “doctator” aka Fauci.

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pedeinMI 3 points ago +3 / -0

BC has significant long term side effects that no one talks about. Look up NFP methods as a means of tracking fertility to achieve rather than avoid pregnancy. Several, sympto thermal, Marquette, Creighton are useful for tracking fertility. Depending on the cause, treatment is possible for infertility. Depending on where you are different ones may be easier to get access to.

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PertinaciousPatriot 3 points ago +3 / -0

Keep your head up, wife and I tried for 7 years and were told to consider adoption. Wife has PCOS and some other issues with ovaries. Long story short our day came she got pregnant and now have 2 beautiful healthy children. The biggest thing is to not put so much pressure on yourself or her. Stay positive and keep trying.

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VTubersAreWorthTheSi 2 points ago +2 / -0

I always found it odd who people who don't want kids and are irresponsible parents get pregnant many times over but, responsible and prepared loving couples don't.

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Undo1913 [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

That’s what put me over the edge to post this. Got family on welfare who are complete degens and they have like 55 kids. They look at each other and get pregnant. Then seeing all the illegals with 14 kids. It’s unreal. We’re in perfect health and young too. Truly think BC pills jacked up her hormones and/or than damn gardisil vaccine. Many of our friends have multiple miscarriages too and also cannot conceive. Then you look at the declining fertility overall in the US, Europe and Russia and other rich countries. Something fucky is up that’s causing the low birth rates and it’s not just “prosperity”

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VTubersAreWorthTheSi 2 points ago +2 / -0

I wouldn't doubt it, BC screws with hormones to regulate menstrual cycles so I wouldn't doubt it also affects ability to conceive.

Also could be things related to our changing diets. All the preservatives and artificial substances.

I was reading somewhere a while ago (can't remember where) that as the decades have progressed and our diets have been changing in developed nations women have been getting their periods earlier in life and fertility in men and women have been going down but in the 3rd world the same hasn't been observed.

But I'll be praying to God that he blesses you and your wife with a beautiful, healthy child.

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Undo1913 [S] 1 point ago +1 / -0

Yes the white breads and empty carbs definitely strip out a lot of the nutrients. Could also be a factor. Appreciate the info and the prayer.