The gay scene gets a bad rep because people think it's all San Fran gay pride shit.

I know a gay dude who is ex-military and love guns. Will pull over to help strangers who have just been in a wreck. Will run towards the danger instead of away from it. Have known him for years and seen him do this kinda stuff many times.

I've been to gay clubs / gay bars a million times. Several gay friends over the years.

• The gay scene from tv is nothing like the gay scene in real life

In all my years of going to gay clubs Im not sure if Ive ever seen anyone with that look. Those bars DO EXIST - but at most regular gay bars / clubs its just dudes dressed normal.

I know gay dudes who are very masculine and you might never know they were gay. Mans man type shit.

Anyways just dont believe everything you see on tv. Its not all San Fran gay pride shit.