This is basically all of feminism. Omar Sharif pointed this out when hot pants became big in Paris as a symbol of "women's liberation." He was asked what he thought of the hot pants and something like, "I enjoy them but, I'm not sure they mean what the women think they mean." I'm paraphrasing but he got that a lot of "feminism" wasn't actually helping women.
Most men when asked will say they would want a wife that is quiet, modest, willing to stay at home , but then they look at and chase after the exact opposite .
This is basically all of feminism. Omar Sharif pointed this out when hot pants became big in Paris as a symbol of "women's liberation." He was asked what he thought of the hot pants and something like, "I enjoy them but, I'm not sure they mean what the women think they mean." I'm paraphrasing but he got that a lot of "feminism" wasn't actually helping women.
Most men when asked will say they would want a wife that is quiet, modest, willing to stay at home , but then they look at and chase after the exact opposite .