Dear pede how things sound to you provides you with feedback on yourself like a quick Rorschach Diagnostic Test. It does not represent reality. Use "sounds like" to heal your heart/mind ears. Or don't. Fwiw I've always loved the daddy term that's been part of TD culture since 2015. It conveys the affection and respect I felt for my father who I always called daddy. You wouldn't want to impose your issues on me, thank goodness.