My beautiful patriot husband, who red-pilled me when we first got together, sadly passed in 2016. I've dated some since but most dates have gone down in flames the minute politics come up.
This exchange, however, may be the world record for a crash and burn:
An old boyfriend contacted me the other night via LinkedIn. When he called me yesterday, we foolishly stumbled immediately into politics and in less than 5 min he had laughed at me repeatedly, called me ignorant and a conspiracy theorist, wanted to bet me a million dollars that Biden would be prez, and assured me that “everybody who is anybody knows that Biden won.”
Then when he interrupted me for maybe tenth time I lost my patience and raised my voice to say “Will you let me finish?!” ...and he hung up on me.
The irony? He said he had been looking for me for a long time (20+ years) to apologize for being such a prick the last time we saw each other.
My beautiful patriot husband, who red-pilled me when we first got together, sadly passed in 2016. I've dated some since but most dates have gone down in flames the minute politics come up.
This exchange, however, may be the world record for a crash and burn:
An old boyfriend contacted me the other night via LinkedIn. When he called me yesterday, we foolishly stumbled immediately into politics and in less than 5 min he had laughed at me repeatedly, called me ignorant and a conspiracy theorist, wanted to bet me a million dollars that Biden would be prez, and assured me that “everybody who is anybody knows that Biden won.”
Then when he interrupted me for maybe tenth time I lost my patience and raised my voice to say “Will you let me finish?!” ...and he hung up on me.
The irony? He said he had been looking for me for a long time (20+ years) to apologize for being such a prick the last time we saw each other.
I have almost the exact situation... but I'm a guy.
We should talk.
I was about to say this.
except for the talking part I dont want to talk to anyone
Sorry for your loss. And...hi! ; )
He just wanted to prove he still is a prick.
U dated forever alone guy? Did u get his autograph?
Wow his dick must be tiny
It's gotta be nice to know he's really mastered his lack of self-awareness game for 20 years. It is possible to dodge a bullet twice, because you have done it.
My long term SO passed away in February and it would be nice to know it gets better, but it does seem like the good pedes are fewer between than ever.
I am sorry for your own loss and good luck in your own search.
Thanks and my prayers to you for strength. I still miss mine every day but it DOES get better. And I have faith that this year will bring all kinds of new opportunites, from the global scale to the personal level. And once the truth is out, we will no longer be the whacko nutjobs trying to warn people. Won't that be a nice change?
Just a note of coincidence re: your username---my husband's nickname was muleskinner cuz he could handle whatever shit came his way.
That was AWESOME! Thanks for sharing! You will find your MAGA man soon!
Thanks, and I hope so!
No one can replace him, but I know he would want me to open my heart to another if I found someone who shares the same values and ideals, and undertands what is going on so that I would have a true partner in this grand adventure that is life.
I'm not worried. It will happen when it is meant to happen. In the meantime, I am SO EXCITED TO WATCH THIS ALL UNFOLD!! Can't be in DC but I wish all you wonderful pedes love and blessings and the protection of the Almighty, for you are all doing his work. It is a beautiful awe-inspiring thing to witness.
Yup. He lives in Cali. That pretty much sum it all up.
Don't hate me but I was born there. Escaped the plastic bubble 25yrs ago and never looked back. Came to Texas and found home, husband and patriotism. Proud to be a Texan now!
I am sorry for the loss you suffered before and i hope better days are ahead.
Thank you. I wish my husband was here to see this but he knew ALL OF THIS WAS COMING. I feel blessed to be a witness now with my eyes open.
20 years is a long time to NOT grow up.
Sounds like he never stopped being a prick. Congratulations on dodging a bullet. Also, my condolences for the loss of your husband. My wife is the world to me, and I fear I won’t be able to bear the crushing weight of sadness if anything should happen to her.
Thank you. For the first year and a half I just worked and then went to bed. I was a wreck. But then I realized that my husb would kick my butt if I gave up on life, so I got on with it. Focused on a singular plan to escape the matrix. Bought an RV so I could be mobile if nec. Been researching alternate building method. On the path to selling my house and hoping to find land somewhere far, far away from big D cities and build an off grid passive solar house. But I know that the right opportunity will come along when the time is right. It may be my plan, or something completely different. I remain open.
And here I am now, filled with joy and excitement to see this unfolding. I am blessed.
We definitely need a MAGA dating website. SOOOOO many lefties post their TDS on their profiles - many showing they are just as ugly on the inside as they are on the outside.
My plan is to get a good selfie in DC in MAGA-gear surrounded by patriots and I will be sure to post it as my main profile pic on a dating site. That will be the quickest way to weed out the losers and know that only smart women are matching with me.
Great idea. Can't wait to see ALL the pics from DC
I'm not one for all the blingy crap, but I just found myself a nice simple new red/mesh cotton made in the US trucker style cap: GUN OWNERS FOR TRUMP.
That should make it pretty clear where I stand.
Dr. Heidegger's Experiment. We're often the same assholes we always were.
There is a need for matchmaking services. People need to save time and bother.
Some people go to a place where everybody is attractive, and hope to find one among them who agrees with them.
Other people go where everybody agrees with them, and hope to find someone attractive.
The first way is needle-in-haystack.
The second way is needle-in-sewing store. That is where you are going to actually get a needle. They stock them.
We need a dating site for Patriots. Widow here and had an old friend calling. He immediately told me how babysnifferbiden won. I send memes his way to spark his tds.
Yes.
But a matchmaker must be a figure of trust. There isn't a lot of trust going around. First somebody or something must be trusted.
I think there may actually be a dot win site for dating, right now.
As for your old friend, it may be simpler to go to a righty or Trump rally or group or event, and make a new friend there. Starting from that setting as a given, and then working toward "this person is nice." Instead of "This person is nice. I wonder what their opinions are." From which end do you grasp the stick.
Matchmakers screen. That is the point of matchmakers. They can't do the whole job, but they can do half of it.
Where is that second place?? I tried the first and can attest that you are 100% correct. Had lots of interest and offers from attractive, sometimes wealthy men. But their eyes were still closed. No thanks. Morality beats money.
Any Trumpish rally, event, or even gift shop. If there are any stores that sell righty stuff, go there, fiddle with the merchandise, ask an unaccompanied, non-ring wearing customer for advice about what to buy, and smile. Or a gun range. Or a gun shop. Or the plumbing section of a home supplies store.
Well now, those are all EXCELLENT ideas and I thank you for your advice. Brilliant!
Been wanting some range training anyway.
When you have leisure, maybe YOU could start a matchmaker service. After the process of asking for recommendations has worked for you, you will see how these mechanisms work. You can share and pass on to others.
You know, maybe I will do just that! I was a writer/editor for many years. Maybe this is my opportunity to help in some small way. Bringing people together to celebrate and promote American values. Not a bad idea.
Yes.
And make some families and some babies.
At the range, it is simpler to get a little friendly with management, and ask, perhaps a woman manager, to introduce you to someone suitable. That way, you won't be wondering who is single or not.
Clearly you made the right move years ago not to stick with this loser