I stay home with all of our children (God-willing we have many more), homeschool, and homestead. The first 4-5 years of marriage we made peanuts. Less than 50k, maybe 40? I was still home raising the babies, we had three before he was able to get back into his field and make a much better paycheck. It's more possible than you think, don't let the Globalist make you believe the lie. It's not as easy for us as it was for our paren't and grandparents, but nothing worthwhile is ever easy.