It happens to all of us. We've all been fooled with this diversity and inclusion stuff. We all thought everyone was mostly the same but this is false. Sometimes people can have value systems that are just not compatible with your own. I was married to a woman who after a number of years came out as a toxic feminist who hated men. Turns out she was just using me for my money but resented everything she "had" to do for me to make me happy because she saw everything as me oppressing her.

The values and beliefs we're teaching people cause division. It's not us causing division though, it's the leftist value system that causes division. All their talk of inclusion is fake. Any group of people that need to market how inclusive they are is probably not that inclusive. In reality, their ideology just creates entitlement, resentment and completely kills genuine care and compassion for others.

I'm sorry this leftist bullshit affected you so drastically. It's really doing a number on everyone in this culture. It's a full on culture war right now and there's lots of casualties.

Are you sure there's no options regarding the citizenship thing? That seems quite tragic. Hopefully you find a good path forward, good luck.