I don’t care how great things were, or even if you disagreed politically (although I do think that, in and of itself, is a gigantic red flag), but that, over politics, she screamed in your face?!? Run!
I’ve been married over ten years. My wife has never screamed at me once, nor I, her.
My parents never even raised their voices to each other in my presence.
And none of these 4 people, myself included, are remotely shy or meek, to say the least.
No marriage will ever, remotely be free of conflict. Of course. And many great marriages may be more combustible than mine. But if there is no decency, no gentleness, no constraint preventing screaming at somebody over politics (and why’s it almost always the lefties who let politics come before family? Because leftism is fundamentally totalitarian, and inherently depraved.)... run, run, run as fast as you can away from a guaranteed life of living hell, and disruption and destruction.
I think you clearly already know this on your own. I just wanted to reinforce your good judgement.
Run, brother, and find a decent girl with gentleness of spirit, who will be a great mother, and who deserves you.
This was a gift.
Move. On.
I don’t care how great things were, or even if you disagreed politically (although I do think that, in and of itself, is a gigantic red flag), but that, over politics, she screamed in your face?!? Run!
I’ve been married over ten years. My wife has never screamed at me once, nor I, her.
My parents never even raised their voices to each other in my presence.
And none of these 4 people, myself included, are remotely shy or meek, to say the least.
No marriage will ever, remotely be free of conflict. Of course. And many great marriages may be more combustible than mine. But if there is no decency, no gentleness, no constraint preventing screaming at somebody over politics (and why’s it almost always the lefties who let politics come before family? Because leftism is fundamentally totalitarian, and inherently depraved.)... run, run, run as fast as you can away from a guaranteed life of living hell, and disruption and destruction.
I think you clearly already know this on your own. I just wanted to reinforce your good judgement.
Run, brother, and find a decent girl with gentleness of spirit, who will be a great mother, and who deserves you.