Yeah that's not cool. He could have disagreed with you and been honest this entire time. I know you could have lived with that, and if you couldnt, at least you wouldnt have wasted your time!

But it sounds like he didn't want to debate, he wanted the upper hand.

That's really dishonest and vindictive. Especially from someone who's suppose to be your partner.

I would have left too. To lie that long and to use it against you in a most vulnerable moment. That's not a friend or partner. That's sickening.