posted ago by Dingmann01
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And I can’t even fucking be there with him because I live in New York. What the fuck am I supposed to do? I’m getting dangerously close to the end of my rope
And I can’t even fucking be there with him because I live in New York. What the fuck am I supposed to do? I’m getting dangerously close to the end of my rope
Get him better then move the fuck out of Cuomo Cumdom. Why the fuck you still there?
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We live in a small town in WA and cost of living is cheap. Look for jobs in rural living or remote and move out of the city.
(we left Seattle because the money came in and the money went out).
Our goal is by summer to be debt free and move to SD
We have good job prospects in the Midwest. SD seems to be booming.
I’m being drawn to the sweet smells of freedom blowing into my communist war zone; little Mogadishu
Tennessee would be a better choice, but then again I'm biased.
Hahahaha WA is not cheap! The whole left coast is expensive as fuck! Go to Florida or Texas
We are on the eastern side. Bought a house for $72/sqft.
There are places around Island County that aren't expensive. The downside is, it's Island County.
Florida hospitals got the same shit going on.
These democrat people try to impoverish everyone in taxatio. Traps so everyone cant get out and become dependant on the all giving hands of government, whicj of course, they control.
I am bombarding the heavens with prayer for healing in your dad and for you to be consumed with peace.
I want you all to know I seriously appreciate the support. It’s tough because I can’t even distract myself. I can’t stand most things that people would use. Movies, tv, music, you name it and odds are I won’t like it at all.
Read your Bible. Get on your knees and ask God for strength for your dad and you. Ask Him to give the medical people wisdom, sure thoughts and healing hands.
Then walk over to the nearest church and again, ask God for comfort.
I hate to say it, but cigarettes.
I'm young and probably can't give good life advice, but please never touch cigs OP
yer grand pappy smoked cigs when he was killin nazis dont forget it
I vape when home. You look like a douche but it’s much easier on the lungs.
id only use a vape to ween off of nicotine honestly, way easier to control
I'm so sorry for what you and your dad are going through.
Do you lift weights, run, workout, etc.? If you don't have equipment where you are, lift some heavy stuff around your house.
North rural Georgia. We're solid red up here but the same crap is going on with our hospitals. It really sucks.
What about working with your hands? I have several types of hobbies that involve molding, carving, woodworking, etc. if that sparks an interest. Physically making things is always my go-to when I'm running at or beyond empty - it lets my mind either rest or think at its clearest.
Fuck this bullshit. Not that this is comparable but I had to wait in my car while my 5yr old had a terrifying dental appointment. This shit is fucking stupid and has to stop. So sorry man. I cant imagine.
I’d say it’s similar. Maybe not in severity but the urge to be there for a loved one
My Dads my best friend. I would be irreparably cold hearted after that. I'm fed up.
If it comes to the end, make sure you take some of them with you.
go, go be with him any way possible. Praying for you.
Best you can do is try getting there.
My mom died when I was on the plane to see her.
All you can do is try, fam.
Best of luck.
Sorry man, I hate that for you.
Tie a knot at the end and hold on my friend.
I am NOT a doctor.
Read This and see if you can do something with this information:
https://www.premierhealth.com/your-health/articles/women-wisdom-wellness-/how-to-stop-a-heart-attack-in-its-tracks
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I sent a prayer for your father.
But suicide isn't the way. Think about it, would your dad be proud of you that you killed yourself?
Get married, have kids (hopefully a son of your own), and be happy.
Praying for you and your pops.
Just fucking go see him
Leave New York
That shit hurts. Don't stress him out more than he already is. Assure him everyone is fine and you'll handle everything and he has nothing to worry about. Stress from family will only make him hurt more.
This is lame but can you talk with a nurse in the ER who is caring for him? Can you talk with him or FaceTime him on your phone?
We’re texting but I just want to be able to be there for him.
Hey, pede, I haven’t been checking until now. How is your dad doing? I completely understand wanting to be there in person!
In the big picture - the cost/price of a relationship is all in 'losing the relationship.'
Put God in the lead... if you have not read Philippians - try it... its like 4 pages long... take it to heart...
you can not control everything - you never could.
Hang in there, Pede. Connect with him as best as you can online. Eat something and force yourself to try and sleep so that you can be there for him as soon as possible.
I so sorry fren. I know this pain as I couldn't be there for my dad either. Praying for you and your dad in Jesus name!
im sorry? why cant you go to where he is?
When my Pop was in the hospital and I wasn't allowed in, I went to walmart and bought scrubs - top and bottom, and then casually walled into his room. He was glad to see me, and I felt better too.
Hang in there patriot. I’m sure your dad understands the situation and would not want you to do anything that would negatively affect the rest fo your life. Be strong so you can help us fix this mess over the coming weeks and years.
God bless you and your dad.
Take out a few scumbags on your way out please
Praying
If only the corrupt governor realized there are things more lethal than covid.