Family is not based upon genetics. If you put up with abuse and misery for the namesake of preserving "family" you need to wake up and stop! Disown and disavow those "family" who are your enemies. They will betray you. They hate you. They are not your family, and if you think they are, stop being naive, stop being foolish. See reality for how it is, not for what you want it to be. You don't live in a freaking Disney movie! That family will betray you, stab you in the back, and cheer as they take you to the gulags and kill you!