Tell any reasonable leftest that you care about at least this:
It’s okay to be upset and angry, but don’t misplace your anger. Be angry at the MSM, at Big Tech, and at most of our political leaders who have been lying to you this entire time.
Had they been honest, none of what’s happening would be a surprise to you.
dump her, it will only get worse
If she doesn't trust you, but will do somersaults to explain the mountains of irregularities, I'd be out. She will always value Facebook News over your relationship.