Wait if you go on a rant about people saying "n-word" instead of you actually using the n-word aren't you part of the problem you were just explaining? Why not just type it out if it's no big deal? Even if it's deleted or you get banned, you're suppressing your own first amendment by doing so.

My own humble opinion on the word, is that it disrespects the people who were slaves and their descendants. I think the ignorance definition could be used but the word has such a derogatory past towards a particular race that it should never be used by anyone even it's slang variants. Again that's my own humble opinion and I would never force anyone to not use it.