I was with my husband at the supermarket (in Shitladephia) and I noticed a guy staring at us, but I brushed off, we walk to another ally and I ask my husband to go and get me something from another ally. The dude that was staring approached me (I instinctively put my hands inside my jacket; pepper spray) and asked me why was I with a "White man"? And he starts telling me why "Black women" shouldn't date outside their race, because racism and white supremacy. I replied at him; I'm not Black and my husband is not White, WE are Hispanics/Latinos and we are both Mulattoes/mix. And even if I want to date a White/Caucasian man that's none of his business.
He looked at me offended and tried to engage in argument (I was so anxious, I was going to pepper spray his ass) when my husband came back and asked me in Spanish what was going on and I replied in Spanish as well. My husband started heating up and asked the guy to BTFO and the dude was like: my bad, I apologize. 😑😒 This people are overdoing it.
It's a weird phenomenon that I never actually noticed until a friend pointed it out to me when we were driving through a mall parking lot one day.
"There's that look. Asshole."
Me: "What?"
"I get so tired of brothers staring me down if I'm anywhere with a white guy."
Interesting discussion ensued.
Sorry you had to deal with this b.s.
Tell me about. I always gat those weird looks when I'm with my husband, but until today nobody has approached me before.
I can tell they are judging us, my husband husband can tell, too. It is so annoying, because we don't want our kids to live thru this. What happens if my kids come out light skin like his father? They going to be call racists. Or dark skin like me? They going to be call oppressed.