Went like this.
Me: Too bad about the few at the capital who did bad things. Probably agitators.
Him: Yeah I kind of agree. But I just wish it never got to this point. The racist stuff Trump says doesn't help.
Me: Oh yeah... er I mean, well what racist stuff exactly?
Him: Well you know just all that stuff.
Me: No I can't think of anything... can you give me a specific example?
Him:....
Me: I need a specific example. I really want to know what he said because if he did that's terrible!
Him: well I can't think of anything right now but yeah...
Me: Can I tell you about Charlottesville?
okay but you gave your birth year, and of course i don't knwo what other stuff you have out there. for example if you ever posted your general area or other identifier they can cross check. but you seem to know all that so nevermind lol
Hey no worries. I do appreciate the concern. It's nice that the people here for the most part seem to mutually give a shit about everyone else.