Don't go the parler route and host on someone else's cloud. Also, when you use the cloud, anyone's "cloud" you are simply storing your data on a network server controlled by another party.
I tell people this and they respond but its encrypted. They read your data. Maybe not, but they delete it. They can null route it.
An old expression was "the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world". Its been revised to, "he who has the root password rules the world"!
So, how? These are just few high points. There are many many experts who can assist with even greater detail.
-Internet numbers or IP addresses are distributed by upstream providers. ARIN provides the number to ISPs in America. There are multiple organizations world wide that perform the same function internationally.
-Never go w/ just one domain. Register domain1, domain2, domain3, or .com, .biz, .net, .video, etc. Register each domain w/ a different Registrar. Register a .to domain (island of Tonga). Perhaps register one overseas. Each domain can list the same name servers.
-Build your name servers
-Collocate at carrier neutral sites. Obtain bandwidth from ISPs that are connected on different backbones. Utilize multiple locations and mirror all servers.
-Choose providers based on who their backbone provider is. Perhaps choose one that is less in tune with politics. eg. Verio is a great backbone and is part of NTT a Japenese company. Not making a recommendation but do some research on this.
-Redunancy. BGP. Other commonly available network tools for dynamic routing and optimization.
-Open Source. The Internet enjoyed massive growth in the mid 90's as a result of savvy entrepreneurs who mostly utilized Free BSD as their op system and Apache as the open source web server. Both of those are still around. Every single thing needed to build a servers for a resilient network is available open source.
This is not a blue print for network design. Just throwing out some widely known concepts. There are highly people that design fail safe and resilient networks. Rather than complaining about deplatforming, its time for other market players to step up and utilize currently available technology to eliminate the need for services from those that deplatform.
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