I'm starting to accept the fact that my wife is an NPC. I mentioned the other day that Trump was banned from twitter and she said "good!" No concern for Big Tech having the amount of control they do.
Just this morning she was telling our kids how important it was to wear masks. I jokingly said no, they just want to see how far they can push us. She gave me an annoyed look.
In our 10 years together, I can't remember her having an opinion outside of the mainstream. Seeing society being brainwashed is bad enough without having to see it in your own home.
My entire family is extreme liberal. It’s absolutely sad and toxic. I’m not allowed to speak Trump’s name. I’ve been told to go on and die. To lower my moral compass, when I spoke about Islamic extremism they called me a fucking bully. We are no longer speaking at all and I have moved out. I feel your pain.
Good for you, you don't need those people in your life. They are toxic and will try to tear you down. You are much better off without them.
It’s peaceful but lonely
Loneliness is the human condition, but its upside is freedom.
If you want friends, you have to mostly think like them, unless you have exceptionally enlightened friends considering the times we find ourselves in.
Vaya con Dios, mijo.
Have faith. Hang in there. God will reward you for standing up for the truth!!
You've got us honey.
Your not alone! I am with you, and there are many like us. Its OK to let your family believe what they want and not argue with them if it keeps your relationship going. That is if they are people you want a relation ship with for things other than political discussion.
Hoping there is a knock and an apology in your future.
Thank you!
Sorry for your loss! What you need to do is sign them up for every Trump email list you can. Maybe some of the good gop reps too. Small but satisfying payback!
I could never date anyone with opposing political views that I. I am pretty conservative, and the lowest I would go is someone who considers themselves moderate. Liberal? No way. You would never agree on anything politically, and if kids are involved, the last thing I want is some wacko who thinks white privilege is real and 10 different genders exist raising my kids to become the same.
Very astute.
Redpill your kids, thoughtfully. Talk to them about subjects that will effect them when they are adults.
The moment it clicked for my wife was when I explained suicide rates for men and my kids asked why.
Flood gates OPEN. Next thing I know she was slipping me redpills.
Curious, can you or anyone expand on suicide rates for men and the correlation to conservatism/red-pilling?
Edit: Thanks for the replies, very eye opening and sad at the same time
Not the op, but I think it's more of left's push to make fathers obsolete, destroy family and minimize man's role in a society.
In order for you to feel happiness or contentment, you need a goal, an aim. Each time to come closer to that goal you get a positive hit of internal drugs. Men do 3 things: Procreate, provide, protect. Leftism wants none of those for you. No kids. If you do, you have to live outside the family and your provisions are taken from you by the state and given to the mother.---> you are useless now. With all those taken from you, the only option left is to take drugs, have sex with strangers or other addictive behaviors to help you get the happiness feeling. You will become nihilistic or depressed. With no way out of that spiral suicide seems like a good alternative.
Nothing dirext comes to mind except the absolute silence around the phenomenon.
I told my oldest son to Google Suicide Rates in adult men and while some information is available it pales in comparison to the next challenge I gave him: Suicide Transgenders.
When my son asked why there is so little available for men I responded with: Why do you think there is so little info?
The conversations that stem from that 10 minute encounter are endless and expose the MSM for their hypocrisy.
Yeah it's important to teach kids HOW to think critically, not what to think.
Thats the only difference between us and them.
Good for you.
I can't tell if this is bitter or not...
I should have made it an exclamation point, shouldn't I.
I feel for you, brother. Fortunately for me, my wife makes me sound like a purpled-haired flower child. I love her!
The whole last 4 years is because of derranged women, mindless women who follow their lead, and weak kneed men who tollerate Nonsense. They think evil men want to take away their rights and control them! We should end womens suffrage , seriously, what good has actually come of it?
4?? Try 60. The "sexual revolution" and feminism was the greatest cancer on modern society.
You bring up a good point. What we’re seeing, and the problems we’re having, is because of the feminization of society.
That’s not to say that feminine is a bad thing, just that “feminine” is more about cooperation, while masculine is about competition. Females also use tactics like smearing someone’s reputation, vs bare knuckles behind the gym.
It’s also why socialism is making huge inroads, because that’s how you run a family. Families aren’t competitive, they’re cooperative (well, most families).
Media is no longer a competition among journalists to break a big story, they instead cooperatively destroy people’s reputations based on gossip and hearsay.
Boys are now treated like “broken” girls, and masculinity is seen as “toxic.”
While I wouldn’t go as far as ending women’s suffrage, lol, I do think we need a massive injection of testosterone back into the system before we drown in all this estrogen.
Well thought out and said!
Based AF comment
Welcome to your crucible. Get ahead of it or ignore it and die a slow death. Maybe talk to the wife and find out who you married.
She’s clearly malleable. Took me almost three years to make my wife see what they were doing. Kavanaugh hearings led to her informing me: “you’re right, they are all liars and scum, I’m voting for Trump”.
my wife agrees with me but she gets tired of me talking about it and tells me I just keep saying the same stuff over and over again.
Same with mine. Complaining I'm too plugged in right now.
There could be some truth to that if you're not giving yourselves enough downtime to psychologically detox from all this garbage.
Mine is based.
Thankfully, my wife is more based than I am. She's like "tell me more!" when I mention what I read here.
Get to your kids before she does.
Mine lives in her own little world and I'm ok with that. Her mental health needs to be good for our son. She is aware things aren't right, but she doesn't understand the gravity of the situation yet.
man for me she just doesn't want to hear it. she doesnt care either way but when i tried to discuss the truth im now looked at different and as insane. l understood as ive only just woken up and when you do im sure anyone who was alone when they did probably lost their shit for a few days, i did, ive balanced back out but i wasn't ready and no one else i know wants to see it.
I'm very fortunate. My wife, children and even grandchildren are all based. I just worry about my grandchildren when they attend college, I've watched a few female relatives enter college as normal young adults and leave as leftist lunatics who think they know everything but in reality are ignorant as fuck and won't listen to any non-leftist thought.
Being normal is not enough if they've been sheltered and haven't been exposed to leftist lunacy prior to going to college. I went to an elitist university and came out even more radically conservative than I went in thanks to my mom being very combative and directly calling out my dad's lefty family's bullshit and then me seeing more of the same degeneracy in college and realizing it had a pattern of making people miserable deep down.
You'd do well to get rid of the communist influence in your home. The snake targeted eve for a reason. Happy wife happy life is how commies get inside your house.
I’m sorry. That must be so difficult and sad.
definitely - My wife is a normie, though she voted for DJT. Her mom and dad are huge trump supporters. Her mom is from S. Korea and to hear her go off on CNN and lefties is epic.
But my wife let's YouTube play and the lefty news comes on and I say, "why do you listen to that shit..they're lying to you" She tried to justify how DJT "inferred" to storm the capital.
It's getting frustrating.
Wanna be frens? I’m worried my kid is going to grow up thinking daddy supported “literally hitler” and will hate me.
My gf is basically my wife, we have a blended family. We basically can’t talk about anything political. In day to day life she’s an incredible woman and we share a lot of important values but the liberal programming runs deep. It’s total radio silence in my house.
So you're paying to raise another man's children, subjecting your children to a liberal, and you're not married. Re-evaluate your life choices, because you're endangering your future happiness and that of your children.
The man is supposed to be the head of the household and primary decision-maker, stop being a pussy beta-male and put her in her place.
I agree wth this. Take control of your household dude. Lay down the law.
My husband gives me a couple minutes at a time if I also let him tell me about sports.
The older I get the more I start to think the 19th amendment was a mistake.
Sorry to hear that pede. The best solution is to talk to her in a rational manner. Too many people have been programmed by television and social media. They want to be told what to think. Once you get her to start thinking for herself she will be better off.
I have the same but reverse problem. My wife is super-based and she's very distraught and upset. The political situation is on her mind 25/7 and she always wants to discuss it. She's understandably very worried.
I probably fall into that category as well. My husband wants me to chill out a bit. I told him nothings getting done until after Jan 20th!
But I keep him informed and we talk about everything... he appreciates it just doesn’t want me so upset
I got super lucky that my wife wasn’t political at all until 2016 when she came out hard for Bernie. We both did. When he sold out and kissed Hillary’s ring she took it harder than I did, because he was her first foray into politics.
She ended up voting for Stein in 2016, because she still believed all the bullshit about the President, but she’s watched what they’ve done to the President over the past four years and voted for him in 2020.
We went to dinner with my folks who are MSM NPCs the other night, and when my mother brought up the COVID vaccine my wife said “no fucking way.” Immediately. It was a proud moment, lol.
that’s rough man
your job is to keep pushing
the truth will win
I feel for you. My mother is a femi-nazi and my husband is center-left. There are certain things I just won't bring up because I don't want it to turn into an argument. Atleast my husband understands how this censorship is to just shut the opposition up. I can't talk politics with my mother though.
It's not your wife's job to fight the culture war. You're supposed to do that. You stand at the door and keep the wolves at bay, and she will be inside the castle you built for her, focusing on being a wife and mother.
Fortunately my MAGA wife bleeds Red White and Blue for 5 days every month.
Worst. My wife is completely based, but I Hard Redpilled her this last 8 months. She know a lot but she is not equip to argue on her own. She calls me crying from work because she feels like a crazy person and is shamed and belittled when she tried to speak up or doesnt go along with the crowed.
Sad thing is she is a bio engineer, working on autoimmune disease and is surrounded by faggot visa import doctors from China, India and other countries who are imported here to keep Stem Student pay very low.
We have PhD's doing science here, some are medical doctors in their own country, getting payed 24 dollars an hours. How is my wife supposed to get a living wage as a Bachelors in BioEngineerings when she had 65,000 in school loans to play off and these Ph'Ds got their education for near free and will work for piss water.
It angers me to no end, that my wife is ridiculed at work for knowing the truth. Sometimes I wish I would have left her ignorant so that she would be happier, but thats not the man I am.
Lol, she actually hugged me the other day apologizing that I have been alone with my knowledge, surrounded by madness. But I know I am not alone! Everyday I inform people around me.
People added me to Imessage groups to show their friends what I had to say. I now feed lots of information, from this website, in digestible bits to the normies. I never really talk about any Q stuff, just the straight up real news that we all see and discover. Mostly very confirmed and likely things on the front page.
This has brought my husband and I closer. I was the biggest eye rolling skeptic of his crazy "conspiracy" rants. I think I really stated listening to him just before the election when I saw so many youtubers posting the vast difference b/w Biden and Trump rallys. That, and they trashed Herman Cain on the air and blamed his death on Trump. We spend our evening researching. May renew vows again if this gets any juicier.
You fucked up unless you love her so much that politics don't matter.
They didn't for a while. I guess I'm the one who changed. For a long time I was apolitical. I voted for Trump twice and she never tried to convince me not to. It's just crazy to me that people can't see what's happening
I feel your pain swifty. I. In the same boat. Its not you, its them. The msm has taken the left and radicalized them and driven them off a cliff. Me and my wife no longer talk politics and tbh stay together for the kids.
It's not about politics so much as it is about values. Some people think they're liberal but if their values are morally grounded, their politics will adapt over time or in response to good faith discussion.
Block CNN and MSNBC on the tv. See how she reacts.
She doesn't watch those. She'll watch local news or go online. She believes everything they say
Luckily my wife got red pilled by the BLM riots and Trump's 4th of July speech at Mt Rushmore.
That's what you get for allowing cable news on your TV.
Just had my son tell me I was crazy.... can't wait for this to end.
I have to constantly red pill my wife everyday because she's so grossly uninformed. She watches surface news in the morning and believes whatever they tell her. People just blindly accept it. It's too much work
I am a lucky one. My lady pede is more based than I am. She is always sending me links on rumble or parler and she has been to more rallies than I have. She keeps me sane because the rest of my family are liberals. She got covid and was down for two days and called people pussy's for thinking it was the end of the world.
Most importantly you need to be a respected voice in your home for you children’s well being and upbringing. At the very least it’s a positive note for them to see both sides having civil disagreement even though your frankly right and wife is wrong. It’s critical they all consume many redpills daily. Prayers for you and the fam!
Cancel cable. Cancel netflix. She wants it, let her pay for it.
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This is shaping up to be one of the best threads of the week.
Everyone here should read the book “The Way of Men” by Jack Donovan
My wife is right in the middle. She told me last week she thinks I should forget about politics for a while. She's concerned about the amount of attention I've been giving to this insanity.
I responded "Not right now. Not a good time". She just shrugged and walked away
All I can say is keep standing your ground and being strong in what you believe. She loves you and will respect you for that. She also may be very independent and not want to verbally agree with you because she doesn’t want to “concede”.
3 ideas to try:
Ask her what she thinks about something. Frame things as though you really want to know what she thinks. Ask her opinions about things, even if you totally disagree. She will feel like she’s being heard and be more receptive when you make a point about something later. Just keep asking her questions in heartfelt way.
Find a topic that you know perks her interest or she feels passionately about that you do agree on. Whatever it is. Send her links/videos about it from time to time and build a common ground and go from there.
Have patience. I have friends in the same boat and you just have to keep working at it. It takes time to wake people up and they have to be in a place in life where they are receptive to it.
Just going to throw this out there because I love marriage/unity. I see a lack of love and respect in the communication pattern you describe between you and your wife that is going to leave you both frustrated and unfulfilled.
My wife and I don't 100% agree on everything pertaining to this election, but we've been able to find common ground by working on how we communicate with each other. I'm not selling anything, it's just really helped us in a short period of time. Consider checking it out. They have an email thing you can sign up for where they'll email you every couple days to give you something to mull over: https://www.loveandrespect.com/men-1
I been in your position with my last GF. I'd never date someone who was a liberal ever again. That is just part of my standards now for a woman.
She's the sort who won't care and will go along with schemes of our evil masters until those schemes end up on her own doorstep, and in her own face. Give it time - it will. Soon she'll be coming to you complaining that she was banned for commenting about any number of seemingly banal topics.
Many liberals fear the prospect that their party is truly a giant con and it’s too much for them to face. They live in denial because it’s easier and they crave the acceptance of their virtue signaling peers as comfort.