I'm starting to accept the fact that my wife is an NPC. I mentioned the other day that Trump was banned from twitter and she said "good!" No concern for Big Tech having the amount of control they do.
Just this morning she was telling our kids how important it was to wear masks. I jokingly said no, they just want to see how far they can push us. She gave me an annoyed look.
In our 10 years together, I can't remember her having an opinion outside of the mainstream. Seeing society being brainwashed is bad enough without having to see it in your own home.
All I can say is keep standing your ground and being strong in what you believe. She loves you and will respect you for that. She also may be very independent and not want to verbally agree with you because she doesn’t want to “concede”.
3 ideas to try:
Ask her what she thinks about something. Frame things as though you really want to know what she thinks. Ask her opinions about things, even if you totally disagree. She will feel like she’s being heard and be more receptive when you make a point about something later. Just keep asking her questions in heartfelt way.
Find a topic that you know perks her interest or she feels passionately about that you do agree on. Whatever it is. Send her links/videos about it from time to time and build a common ground and go from there.
Have patience. I have friends in the same boat and you just have to keep working at it. It takes time to wake people up and they have to be in a place in life where they are receptive to it.