There are suggestions that this ratio is now even further lopsided from 78-20 to 95-5. There's a whole based subreddit that shows how mismatched the dating world is, but it is bleak reading. Brace yourself. People will encourage you to get into that top 20% (or 5%, if that's to be believed) without acknowledging how morally messed up that ratio is to begin with.
The best advice is to work on yourself without worrying about women at all. Do it for yourself and God. If you're basing your self-worth on somebody else, then you're doing it wrong anyway. Hopefully your based wife is doing the same thing now, and your paths will cross in the future when you're both ready. But you must a solid foundation of your own self-worth, because in in the inevitable dark and desolate times, that's what you'll have to fall back on. Tragically, we can't rely on the people around us unless they change their level of empathy.
I wish a girl would take interest in me
Go out there and become a chad son. Why are you wishing for shit.
I don’t know how.
Notice how everyone is telling you what you have to do? As if you're the only one who has to change for the relationship? The sad reality is that the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women, while the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men.
There are suggestions that this ratio is now even further lopsided from 78-20 to 95-5. There's a whole based subreddit that shows how mismatched the dating world is, but it is bleak reading. Brace yourself. People will encourage you to get into that top 20% (or 5%, if that's to be believed) without acknowledging how morally messed up that ratio is to begin with.
The best advice is to work on yourself without worrying about women at all. Do it for yourself and God. If you're basing your self-worth on somebody else, then you're doing it wrong anyway. Hopefully your based wife is doing the same thing now, and your paths will cross in the future when you're both ready. But you must a solid foundation of your own self-worth, because in in the inevitable dark and desolate times, that's what you'll have to fall back on. Tragically, we can't rely on the people around us unless they change their level of empathy.