Lol I knew this question would come up unfortunately I did not prepare... Well then I guess that's not the right one I suppose there's more to it So prob wise the basics are checked off 1st ,(gender, physical attraction, maturity level, similar sense of humour, relatively similar age, etc but specific for u) theeeeennn.... Besty meaning u Kno all the things that would make someone ur best friend Is there for u, u can b urself around, u can be honest w/, values ur optinion vice versa, u can debate w/ trust each other's judgement & so on. If this is the case then there's nothing y'all can get thru together ( except maybe death of a child or kidnapping. Seems like 1 of these 2 events pretty much always is too much too bear, couples generally never make it) but that's neither here nor there