Not true, marriage can be a wonderful thing but u gotta marry ur best friend that's the secret. If u do this, communicate, & grow together then there's nothing can't do together. A good marriage is the most powerful thing there is. Don't allow urself to fall for that propaganda. They would very much like u to believe this. Just hold out for the right one.
Got to marry your best friend? What if your best friend's a man? Or a cat?
I don't believe that marriage is for everybody, or that is "the most powerful thing". You say don't believe the propaganda, but it seems like you bought into the marriage propaganda.
& actually no unfortunately for me I ran as fast as I could in the opposite direction. The propaganda that framed my narrative was one in which "traditional" "nuclear" families were oppressive. The word "submissive" was kryptonite to my ears. I wanted nothing to do with marriage ever. Not a partner, no long term, no committed relationship of any sort. I figured one day if I wanted kids, I'd adopt. I just wanted to be a single designer w/no attachments no strings.
When I say you've lived numerous lives It's an understatement. I have been a traveling stripper, a homeless artist, a reserved receptionist in a law firm in Palm Beach. &have been a drug dealer to wealthy boat captins in the Caribbean, I've worked construction, was a teacher's aide & even a junkie, I've hitchhiked along the coast & have even (unfortunately) been to Epstein's house. I've had money i practically just threw out a windowt & have had to panhandle. I have done it all in every way u could imagine. Always "searching for happiness" running away from that notion in my mind that was a prison sentence. For pathetic woman to weak to live her own life. My mother & grandmother would tell me that until I settled down & had kids I'd never be satisfied. What could they know, submissive, catholic, pro life women that only voted republican cuz they are told to. They don't know what to think let alone give me advice.....
Your right, marriage is not for everyone. Here's another just cuz 2 ppl love each other, doesn't mean they should be together. I'm sure u Kno a lot of these things ppl say to make u feel butter or u use to rationalize ur choices.
I'm 45 & as it turns out the only thing that would've made me actually happy would've been to get married & have at least 10 kids live on a farm or in the country. I wasted my entire life running from what I am naturally, what God intended for me is the only thing that would've done it. I learned this to late in life to undo what I had already done, don't make the same mistake. Be honest w/urself maybe ur right, but maybe I am
Marriage is bullshit and not worth it for men today.
Not true, marriage can be a wonderful thing but u gotta marry ur best friend that's the secret. If u do this, communicate, & grow together then there's nothing can't do together. A good marriage is the most powerful thing there is. Don't allow urself to fall for that propaganda. They would very much like u to believe this. Just hold out for the right one.
Got to marry your best friend? What if your best friend's a man? Or a cat?
I don't believe that marriage is for everybody, or that is "the most powerful thing". You say don't believe the propaganda, but it seems like you bought into the marriage propaganda.
& actually no unfortunately for me I ran as fast as I could in the opposite direction. The propaganda that framed my narrative was one in which "traditional" "nuclear" families were oppressive. The word "submissive" was kryptonite to my ears. I wanted nothing to do with marriage ever. Not a partner, no long term, no committed relationship of any sort. I figured one day if I wanted kids, I'd adopt. I just wanted to be a single designer w/no attachments no strings. When I say you've lived numerous lives It's an understatement. I have been a traveling stripper, a homeless artist, a reserved receptionist in a law firm in Palm Beach. &have been a drug dealer to wealthy boat captins in the Caribbean, I've worked construction, was a teacher's aide & even a junkie, I've hitchhiked along the coast & have even (unfortunately) been to Epstein's house. I've had money i practically just threw out a windowt & have had to panhandle. I have done it all in every way u could imagine. Always "searching for happiness" running away from that notion in my mind that was a prison sentence. For pathetic woman to weak to live her own life. My mother & grandmother would tell me that until I settled down & had kids I'd never be satisfied. What could they know, submissive, catholic, pro life women that only voted republican cuz they are told to. They don't know what to think let alone give me advice.....
Your right, marriage is not for everyone. Here's another just cuz 2 ppl love each other, doesn't mean they should be together. I'm sure u Kno a lot of these things ppl say to make u feel butter or u use to rationalize ur choices.
I'm 45 & as it turns out the only thing that would've made me actually happy would've been to get married & have at least 10 kids live on a farm or in the country. I wasted my entire life running from what I am naturally, what God intended for me is the only thing that would've done it. I learned this to late in life to undo what I had already done, don't make the same mistake. Be honest w/urself maybe ur right, but maybe I am