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I won't be Gulag-ed just yet as I'm not white. That'll happen later. What they will do though is completely un-person me and hang me out to dry and watch me suffer due to unemployment, shunning and full corporate ostracism. Then I'll kinda wish I was in the Gulag because at least there I'd have some basic, simple sense of community and food twice a week.
Wait 6 months and check your assigned gulag. Oh, I mean “re-education center”. 😏
Sorry for taking the easy route of gallows humor, it’s just my nature.
My serious advice is first get out of the Leftist strongholds. I’m not being flippant now. It’ll be hard, it’ll probably take time, but there’s really no place left for you there.
So what places then? Only Southern states? Or do you mean states that trump officially won in 2020? Or do you mean moving out to the country/rural areas?
How about the West? Any places there that are safe?
I would definitely go as rural as you can stand/survive as far as making a living. They’ll hopefully be the last to go under. And it’s a nice peaceful life if we’re left alone.
And don’t believe that bullshit that rural areas are raaaacist. If you’re a good person your more than welcome everywhere I’ve been.
I don't believe that either at all. That being said, some cultures in some places are definitely less friendly than others. It does seem like a rural area in FL or the West coast would not be similar in culture to a rural area in like, South Carolina.
I do get the impression that the West coast in general is more easygoing about race than the East coast.
Really? I get the impression that most on the west coast are trying to tiptoe over broken glass to not appear racist when most (most, not all) parts of the east/south east just accept other races as an integrated/integral part of the culture. Sure, you’ll find exceptions everywhere, but that’s been my experience.
I’ve spent time in GA and North FL, and been through many other states.
Again, I’m not saying it’s all coombayah, but in most places, people get along with their neighbors, certainly better than the media and politicians portray. Their goal is to divide.
From what I’ve heard, yes. I don’t remember details now, but I remember hearing things that made him as bad as most of the others.
And Gov Noem kept SD open all of last year and trusted her constituents to be smart enough to take precautions and they had one of the lowest rates in the country.
Been on dating websites and was surprised that 80% of women told me they voted Trump. Most guys I think act as liberals because they think it gives them the best chance of getting women.
Advice be yourself and you will attract the right guy
Same. As a single guy, I'm concerned about finding a conservative woman here. Even though I'm in rural-ish PA, it's the extended Philly burbs and I'm surrounded by crazy libs.
Yeah, it's really terrible. I'm really not sure how on earth to pull this off. Before you could at least say you were not a liberal on dating sites without getting immediately kicked off.
Hahaha, yeah, I can see the ladies who run Bumble freaking out about a gun picture. They'd want men to wear those huge, ugly black plastic-frame glasses and be holding a dog and giving those wide-open mouth nu-male smiles.
I'm a ladypede and I used it a few years ago to find my husband. I loved it because I was surrounded by beta soy boys who never grew up and I knew exactly what I was looking for and they weren't it. I tried everything too and my last ditch effort was Eharmony. E-Harmony's preliminary screening questions are extensive and get you matches with mostly like-minded people. Once you get matched, there's three stages of interactions before you can email through their website and it's easy to weed people out quickly before that point. My best advice on your profile is to be extremely honest and say who you are and what you want; be super upfront so you don't waste your time. Also, they'll let you know if there's someone just a little outside your requested parameters but who also might be a good match, which was helpful. I hope it works for you! Good luck!
Wow, thank you for this. I tried Eharmony a long time ago and they told me I had no matches around at all. It was weird, like come on, how can I have no matches whatsoever anywhere around?
I tried again after changing some criteria and I really disliked all my matches lol. They seemed so generic like they could be fake profiles.
Are they friendly to non-liberals though? Seems like all dating sites are hostile to anyone who's not a full-time liberal and will ban you for being conservative.
I would avoid TX. The metro areas are already compromised and the recent exodus from states like CA and NY are going to ruin the state quickly.
FL., like gators? 😁
Go to a shooting range. I guess my advice may not work out for you if you live in a Blue State. However, if you live in TN as I do, Head out to the range. You can rent a firearm there if you do not have one. You would meet many single guys and some great, like minded, ladies also.
You may be suprised to find one nearby. Many large cities here in the South and in the Midwestern states have indoor ranges. I am lucky enough to have my own right out back.
Huh? Single MAGA men probably outnumber single MAGA women possibly 100 to 1. Every week, there's posts here from guys in their 20s and 30s wondering where the heck the conservative women are at, followed by dozens of comments from dudes echoing the same. The men are everywhere, packing churches, bars, and conservative rallies to the brim (pre-Covid, at least). And not a conservative young single woman in sight. Here in Florida, one of my single friends went to a Trump rally in Jacksonville, and another went to one in Tampa. Both guys said they were jam packed with dudes, dudes and more dudes, with a side of dudes, with the only females there being married and/or old. I know you said no church, but in red areas, the churches have plenty of great men and no women, and you don't necessarily have to be religious to try them out. Are they all 6'4" and hot? Nope! But they're good men. I live in a solid red part of central Florida, and I can confirm: move to a red area, and prepare to be swarmed by great guys.
I don't care about height at all. Hotness, Idk. I mean, if I shouldn't worry about it, I'd like the guy to not care about it either. But you're talking about red areas. I'm not in a red area at all. In a non-red area, forget MAGA men, there's not even vaguely centrist/'moderate' guys any more. If you don't toe the line about defunding the police and welcoming in millions of illegal aliens, you basically have a bulls-eye painted on you and you have no place to go. People will literally stop talking to you completely if you don't completely agree with them that Trump is literally a Nazi. I'm talking about Stasi-level monitoring by your own neighbors for wrongthink. They'll literally say stuff to you like 'You're not sounding that upset about Trump. Why's that? Are you a Trump supporter? How come you're not so disturbed by this tweet??'
The Internet was like the only channel out of this madness to at least have the possibility of some contact with non-leftists. And now all of that is being taken down asap.
I know this sounds very simplistic, but...moving to a red area/red state will solve a great many problems in your life. Yes, I know moving away is very, very difficult, brutally scary and the logistics and financial situations are daunting. I get that, I do. If Florida ever became solid blue (not looking that way anytime soon), moving would be essential for me, but almost impossible. But if push came to shove, I'd do it. And you should look seriously into it. The overabundance of conservative single men to women in red areas is so massive, so overwhelming, that any female of any age, any race, any background, can walk up to a gathering of men and have 10 phone numbers within an hour. Your singleness would end hours after moving to a more right wing area.
Put "Interested in guns and God" in your dating profile bio or something like that. I know it's dangerous but you have to put yourself out there in some way so right wing guys can pick up on it (even if you slightly give away yourself to the other side). Especially being non-white, a trump supporter (unfortunately) will most likely just assume you are democrat unless there's some signal.
Also, when things open back up, go to gun shows, bitcoin meetups, and Young Republican meetups that right wing guys will attend. Every state has Republican meetup groups
You sound like a terrific lady. If I didn’t have so much baggage I’d throw my hat in the ring. That said, my best advice is still to move to a more conservative area. My best choice, as I said elsewhere is South Dakota, though I’m not there myself, at least yet.
Even without relationship, you can still hang out here and sites like gab.com and clouthub.com to hang virtually with like minded folks, and Parler should be back up soon. At least for now. Not the same as a relationship, but friendship/kinship is essential too.
I really wish you the best and am pulling for you!
Feel free to dm me if that’s a thing here just to talk if you want.
could be in a profile.... or whispered in an intimate bar (if we still had those).... but given today's intellect there's always a chance it would be heard as PeePee - and that could be no bueno
We'll meet in the Gulag. Briefly. See you in the "showers."
I won't be Gulag-ed just yet as I'm not white. That'll happen later. What they will do though is completely un-person me and hang me out to dry and watch me suffer due to unemployment, shunning and full corporate ostracism. Then I'll kinda wish I was in the Gulag because at least there I'd have some basic, simple sense of community and food twice a week.
Wait 6 months and check your assigned gulag. Oh, I mean “re-education center”. 😏
Sorry for taking the easy route of gallows humor, it’s just my nature.
My serious advice is first get out of the Leftist strongholds. I’m not being flippant now. It’ll be hard, it’ll probably take time, but there’s really no place left for you there.
So what places then? Only Southern states? Or do you mean states that trump officially won in 2020? Or do you mean moving out to the country/rural areas?
How about the West? Any places there that are safe?
I would definitely go as rural as you can stand/survive as far as making a living. They’ll hopefully be the last to go under. And it’s a nice peaceful life if we’re left alone. And don’t believe that bullshit that rural areas are raaaacist. If you’re a good person your more than welcome everywhere I’ve been.
I don't believe that either at all. That being said, some cultures in some places are definitely less friendly than others. It does seem like a rural area in FL or the West coast would not be similar in culture to a rural area in like, South Carolina.
I do get the impression that the West coast in general is more easygoing about race than the East coast.
Really? I get the impression that most on the west coast are trying to tiptoe over broken glass to not appear racist when most (most, not all) parts of the east/south east just accept other races as an integrated/integral part of the culture. Sure, you’ll find exceptions everywhere, but that’s been my experience.
Wow, where is the east and south east did you have that experience?
I’ve spent time in GA and North FL, and been through many other states. Again, I’m not saying it’s all coombayah, but in most places, people get along with their neighbors, certainly better than the media and politicians portray. Their goal is to divide.
I’m in Southern Oregon. It’s ok here now, but unless we get a handle on our Leftist state government, we’re screwed too.
My best bet is South Dakota. They’re still based under Governor Noem and seem to be the last bastion, or at least the last to fall.
Out of curiosity, why not North Dakota? Is it run by some RINO?
From what I’ve heard, yes. I don’t remember details now, but I remember hearing things that made him as bad as most of the others. And Gov Noem kept SD open all of last year and trusted her constituents to be smart enough to take precautions and they had one of the lowest rates in the country.
Hm. What kind of activities do conservative guys engage in? Shooting? There's no range near me at all.
And I have no idea what organizations will have any decent number of conservatives? Every religious group here is filled with leftists.
Nowhere. This is a safe space. After this is gone, we cannot come out as a Trump supporters.
Kinda knew that already.
Been on dating websites and was surprised that 80% of women told me they voted Trump. Most guys I think act as liberals because they think it gives them the best chance of getting women.
Advice be yourself and you will attract the right guy
Alas, this won't happen in my area. It's deep blue and every guy is a Democrat. This is not an exaggeration. Conservatives are openly loathed here.
No. Why?
Same. As a single guy, I'm concerned about finding a conservative woman here. Even though I'm in rural-ish PA, it's the extended Philly burbs and I'm surrounded by crazy libs.
Yeah, and now these people want to hunt us down. They won't even leave us alone. It sucks.
Exactly! Things are going to get bad. It's going to be even harder to find Pedes.
Yeah, it's really terrible. I'm really not sure how on earth to pull this off. Before you could at least say you were not a liberal on dating sites without getting immediately kicked off.
Yeah. I was booted off Bumble because one of my photos was of me at the range firing one of my AR-15s. lol
Hahaha, yeah, I can see the ladies who run Bumble freaking out about a gun picture. They'd want men to wear those huge, ugly black plastic-frame glasses and be holding a dog and giving those wide-open mouth nu-male smiles.
I don't get the whole glasses thing. Why do people wear the biggest, ugliest glasses they can find?
To look 'intellectual', probably. Makes em look super nerdy and they think that makes em seem cool.
I don't know about other dating websites, but E-harmony worked for me. Hang in there!
Woah! thanks. How did you get across that you're conservative? And how did your lady do that as well? How could you tell she was not liberal?
I'm a ladypede and I used it a few years ago to find my husband. I loved it because I was surrounded by beta soy boys who never grew up and I knew exactly what I was looking for and they weren't it. I tried everything too and my last ditch effort was Eharmony. E-Harmony's preliminary screening questions are extensive and get you matches with mostly like-minded people. Once you get matched, there's three stages of interactions before you can email through their website and it's easy to weed people out quickly before that point. My best advice on your profile is to be extremely honest and say who you are and what you want; be super upfront so you don't waste your time. Also, they'll let you know if there's someone just a little outside your requested parameters but who also might be a good match, which was helpful. I hope it works for you! Good luck!
Wow, thank you for this. I tried Eharmony a long time ago and they told me I had no matches around at all. It was weird, like come on, how can I have no matches whatsoever anywhere around?
I tried again after changing some criteria and I really disliked all my matches lol. They seemed so generic like they could be fake profiles.
Are they friendly to non-liberals though? Seems like all dating sites are hostile to anyone who's not a full-time liberal and will ban you for being conservative.
How you doin? :D
Lolol hi!
; )
Move to TX or FL
But DFW/Houston/Austin etc are dominated by leftists.
I would avoid TX. The metro areas are already compromised and the recent exodus from states like CA and NY are going to ruin the state quickly. FL., like gators? 😁
If you live in a "Blue" area and you are young, then yep. Problems.
Not young.
Go to a shooting range. I guess my advice may not work out for you if you live in a Blue State. However, if you live in TN as I do, Head out to the range. You can rent a firearm there if you do not have one. You would meet many single guys and some great, like minded, ladies also.
Alas I definitely live far from any gun range. I didn't know though that firearms could be rented at ranges!!
Appreciate you mentioning your state!
You may be suprised to find one nearby. Many large cities here in the South and in the Midwestern states have indoor ranges. I am lucky enough to have my own right out back.
I will gladly receive you as my second wife ma'lady
Dear god. Bigamy is my only option now?
No... 😂
Huh? Single MAGA men probably outnumber single MAGA women possibly 100 to 1. Every week, there's posts here from guys in their 20s and 30s wondering where the heck the conservative women are at, followed by dozens of comments from dudes echoing the same. The men are everywhere, packing churches, bars, and conservative rallies to the brim (pre-Covid, at least). And not a conservative young single woman in sight. Here in Florida, one of my single friends went to a Trump rally in Jacksonville, and another went to one in Tampa. Both guys said they were jam packed with dudes, dudes and more dudes, with a side of dudes, with the only females there being married and/or old. I know you said no church, but in red areas, the churches have plenty of great men and no women, and you don't necessarily have to be religious to try them out. Are they all 6'4" and hot? Nope! But they're good men. I live in a solid red part of central Florida, and I can confirm: move to a red area, and prepare to be swarmed by great guys.
I don't care about height at all. Hotness, Idk. I mean, if I shouldn't worry about it, I'd like the guy to not care about it either. But you're talking about red areas. I'm not in a red area at all. In a non-red area, forget MAGA men, there's not even vaguely centrist/'moderate' guys any more. If you don't toe the line about defunding the police and welcoming in millions of illegal aliens, you basically have a bulls-eye painted on you and you have no place to go. People will literally stop talking to you completely if you don't completely agree with them that Trump is literally a Nazi. I'm talking about Stasi-level monitoring by your own neighbors for wrongthink. They'll literally say stuff to you like 'You're not sounding that upset about Trump. Why's that? Are you a Trump supporter? How come you're not so disturbed by this tweet??'
The Internet was like the only channel out of this madness to at least have the possibility of some contact with non-leftists. And now all of that is being taken down asap.
I know this sounds very simplistic, but...moving to a red area/red state will solve a great many problems in your life. Yes, I know moving away is very, very difficult, brutally scary and the logistics and financial situations are daunting. I get that, I do. If Florida ever became solid blue (not looking that way anytime soon), moving would be essential for me, but almost impossible. But if push came to shove, I'd do it. And you should look seriously into it. The overabundance of conservative single men to women in red areas is so massive, so overwhelming, that any female of any age, any race, any background, can walk up to a gathering of men and have 10 phone numbers within an hour. Your singleness would end hours after moving to a more right wing area.
I have to disagree with your 100/1 assessment of MAGA pedestal. Not my experience at all.
If you're ever in Australia...
shameless self promotion
I had no idea you're Aussie!
Good luck lady pede. There are men out there, you'll see.
Thanks man. Not sure how to find em :/
You have discord?
Put "Interested in guns and God" in your dating profile bio or something like that. I know it's dangerous but you have to put yourself out there in some way so right wing guys can pick up on it (even if you slightly give away yourself to the other side). Especially being non-white, a trump supporter (unfortunately) will most likely just assume you are democrat unless there's some signal.
Also, when things open back up, go to gun shows, bitcoin meetups, and Young Republican meetups that right wing guys will attend. Every state has Republican meetup groups
I didn't know conservative men were also interested in Bitcoin! Out here all the cryptocurrency meetups are packed with leftist nerds.
Church.
GG
You sound like a terrific lady. If I didn’t have so much baggage I’d throw my hat in the ring. That said, my best advice is still to move to a more conservative area. My best choice, as I said elsewhere is South Dakota, though I’m not there myself, at least yet. Even without relationship, you can still hang out here and sites like gab.com and clouthub.com to hang virtually with like minded folks, and Parler should be back up soon. At least for now. Not the same as a relationship, but friendship/kinship is essential too. I really wish you the best and am pulling for you! Feel free to dm me if that’s a thing here just to talk if you want.
psssssst: the code word is "Pepe"
Hmm. How to use it discreetly? Like, put it in a dating profile, you mean?
could be in a profile.... or whispered in an intimate bar (if we still had those).... but given today's intellect there's always a chance it would be heard as PeePee - and that could be no bueno
calm down. its gonna be okay,
meh.
😊 love it!
Get yourself a mellow dog. Much easier to train and they don't leave the seat up.
Come on. This is just extremely cruel and demeaning for no reason. You don't have to troll me. You're kicking me when I'm down.
I am very sorry. I had no intention of 'kicking you while you were down' just trying to make a joke to raise at least my spirits.