You cannot speak to anyone with this mentality. Some people aren't fixed for a point of view and can be generally modeling these sentiments. A reasonable argument,a little patience and some validation could persuade a few people. But the mentality of many of these people is bent. They are looking for satisfaction. Ask yourself if they seem genuine in their efforts to engage you with redirect or are they merely applying a thin veneer of respect as a distraction while they troll you for perverse gratification. None of us have anything to gain by showing unsympathetic bullies how deeply we feel. That's entertainment to these people. They are mocking us. The fraud is absurd in its scope but for the first time in four years these many malcontented bullies feel like they are winning and that is all they care about. Don't cast your pearls before swine