Lots of good, grounded women out there. Relationships take effort and commitment from BOTH parties. Way too many people ignore or excuse red flags of prospective partners. With very few exceptions - most reasons for divorce were likely wildly obvious prior to ever getting married.

Don’t get me started on “people change,” because that is such a cop out and doesn’t excuse either party. There is a very, very good reason why most divorcees will end up divorced again (thus inflating) the high overall divorce rate. It isn’t because “all 4 of my ex-wives CHANGED”.