I think if there is evidence that a divorced woman is having sex with another man then that woman should not be entitled to any child support from the ex-husband. Woman will date a new man after a divorce and not get married for years because the woman will lose child support. A woman shouldn't be able to have a fun dating life and receive post-marital benefits simultaneously. Especially if the new boyfriend doesn't want to take responsibility for the girl's kids or show any commitment. I'm not going through this but my mom is sleeping with another dude and my dad is essentially funding it while he's broke and she's living in a 2-family home. Its not right. I've seen other cases like this. What am I missing here?
EDIT; The purpose of the law is to provide a consequence to a woman for splitting with her husband rather than getting half of his stuff and the kids custody. If a woman has to say "wait.. if I split with my husband, then if I want to fall in love again I will need to severe ties with this guy financially too" provides incentive for a wife and husband to work out their marriage issues and keep the family together. DID YOU THINK ABOUT THAT?? God I feel Insane but this was fun
the 3 income trap
it will never be addressed. that money is not for the parent its for the child. maybe random audits for receipts to show where the money was spent but i am sure that case has been made before.
adultery should have a steep penalty as far custody. if you cheat you are destroying the family structure and are a danger the mental health of the spouse and that directly affects the health of the child. in a way its child abuse.
whats the 3 income trap?
Divorce, woman collects child support. Her boyfriend lives in the house you are still paying for. And her own income. 3 incomes
On top of that the new boyfriend gets to spend more time with your kids than you do.