I said it in a post above but it's really difficult when I'm agnostic. In my experience, most churchgoing women refuse to even consider being with someone who doesn't believe in the same fairytales as they do. Mind you, I have no problem with them believing, and I support their right to worship whoever or whatever, and I'll drive them to church every week if need be, but I just won't sit there and pretend to believe in any of it. I'd be lying to myself and to her if I did pretend that. Regardless, my position on that is still a huge dealbreaker, sadly.