No, there is more that you can do. You already go to church. Talk to the pastor's wife. Describe your life, your reasons and ideas and what you want. Also, in church, become friendly with the old ladies. Then, after they think you are okay, and not too soon, ask if they know anybody for you?

Get some blush makeup online; everybody is too pale now, with all this staying indoors and it being winter.

You have valid concerns but don't let them show. People need to see a smile. Also, remark that you don't drink.

Allow your political views to be aired, remarked out loud, and known. Nobody can tell, unless you specifically say so. The default setting is most women are at least a little left-ish. Especially ex-New Yorkers. Talk.

And wear no rings. Not one. Any ring at all means you might be involved or are keeping a souvenir around.