That's why it was so creepy, I think. When you're not great at writing paragraphs about why you're desirable to date, you end up writing weird stuff. Every profile I looked at on eHarmony had the words "passion" and "passionate" at least seven times. It's great to be passionate about things, but come on, use a different word or end your paragraph! Maybe that's why Match worked out better for me. Guys would just put up photos and short bios, which seemed more genuine. That's where I met my husband and I'm very glad dating is over for me as well. I'd really hate to be ten years younger than I am and dating right now. So many sissy men. So many man buns!