This is literally what he sent me:
You're offspring will reap the demise off your ignorance, be it slavery or another form of retribution. You're unwillingness to acknowledge injustice will bring the wrath of vengeful and irrational beings, seeking reparations in blood. I sought to enlighten you to a reality you were not privy to through the stories of people who lived those hardships. Those "criminals", as you call them, will come to eternally rob you and your next of kin of light... I wish the best for you.
Really fucked up stuff, this was a good friend of mine. What happened to people?
What I don't get, and this is just a little off-topic so I don't meant to derail but how is anyone finding successful relationships these days? I went back on the dating market and all I see are the following:
You've lost all your friends... well, I dunno how people are making new friends. Everyone is an NPC out there.
Yeah idk. I met my wife about 6 years ago on a dating app. She was raised by a conservative father. Maybe just keep trying? Keep your options open to women older than you by a few years if you're a zoomer.
And for this reason all I had to write in my dating profile was "Christian conservative" and my match quality went WAY up.
Quit dating anyhow though. Dating in your 30's sucks.
Edit: for clarity, I'm a woman.
Single 30s here... Found too many women came across as desperate for a bread winner to raise their baby daddy's children.
I get it, it sucks to be a single mom, but from the perspective of a man, they're a liability, because a single mom will always have that bond between her and her children that stepdad won't, and they will always matter to her more than you.
Yep, goes both ways too. Anytime I hear "my son/daughter will always come before you and if that's a problem swipe left" I nope out. It's not that I don't think the kids a top priority, it's that they're already describing a broken family structure.
Unfortunately, I was in a 7 year relationship where I loved the woman and she loved me, for a time. I know what that feeling is like. I almost envy all the young kids growing up today that have never felt the emotion of love before, despite being well into their 20s. I think maybe if I didn't know what I was missing I could do without it.
I can quit dating but then what? Go to the gym, play video games, work more to earn more money to... go to the gym, play videos games? Maybe travel to another country and pretend how much better it'd be to live there even though it's mostly the same? I dunno, I want love and companionship so I'll keep trying despite how dismal it is and the fact I'll likely fail.
Yeah, I totally feel what you're saying. Even if we fail again and again, what's the point of living if we arnt trying? I guess because most of my satisfaction in life comes from building my own dreams and pursuing my own interests, I don't feel much loss. Dating has been more negative than positive, so quitting improved my overall situation ... But also there's less reward, isn't there? You've got a point. I need to process this more.
I think a lot of the talk of "pursuing my own interests" and "building things" is a distraction from what truly matters in life. To me what matters is love and family; community. People that overly focus on building/improving things IMO are sometimes just distracting themselves from the unfortunate reality of their life which is missing this love, family, companionship and community. People too overly focused on going their own way and doing things for themselves in my opinion are often just studying for an exam they never take, that exam being love, family, community and building strong emotional bonds with others.
That's how I think and feel anyway. I've mostly done everything I want and accomplished most things. There's very little I can do to improve my life. I mean, I make 6 figures at a job I work about 3 hours a day at... I'm fit, in good shape, eat healthy, own a place, have done lots of traveling, I've read more books last year than most people have their life, I have a masters degree and post graduate certifications, I've learned how to program even though it isn't my field... Most things feel like a distraction rather than actually something that adds value. To me the real value in life is the emotional connections one forms with others and the most important one of all is between husband and wife and the children she provides.
Yup, women are woefully undatable, meaning there are a ton of single men as well. Might want to look into MGTOW. The unfortunate truth is, when men aren't getting laid, have no say in the government (because of corruption), and have no real economic prospects (the holocough, immigration, free trade) that's usually when revolution happens.
This, 100%, sir.
Today's white single women are all godless liberals like that. They do anything the media and academia tells them to do. And they're all obsessed with BBC now. I live in a solid red area, but all the women are still trashy single mom mudsharks with mixed kids.
Conservative/Trump loving women definitely exist. They just aren’t as vocal as the SJWs.
If you are able to be open about being a Trump fan on your dating profile, I’d start with that. Just stating it upfront will save you a lot of time filtering out crazy people and it might attract the right person.
If your area isn’t totally locked down, I’d also suggest using offline social opportunities to meet people. If you are even slightly religious, join a church that has social events for young adults. Get involved with the young Republicans. Join a gun range that has events for women. Get involved in a pro-life group aimed at young adults (pro-life activists in my experience very heavily lean female, contrary to popular belief). Even if you don’t meet someone at these events directly, they may have a friend, sister, daughter, niece, etc. who is like minded. Things like this may be better ways to meet the right kind of woman than something like Tinder.
This isn't 1965 anymore. Things have drastically, horrifically changed. There's an incredible, mind-boggling overabundance of MAGA single men and an almost complete lack of MAGA women. Churches have no single, childless conservative women in them, even many large churches don't even have young adult groups anymore because it's just all lonely men. Single women don't go a gun range, for God's sake; just married females are there just because their husbands go. Young Republicans are mostly men, and they are only active in college areas and only for those college-aged. Prolife groups are all old women, dudes, little kids, and housewives with five homeschooled kids. The absence of conservative single females in the United States is very well known for the hundreds of thousands of single MAGA men out there.
I'm not saying that attending these kinds of events will guarantee you will meet someone at the event who is single and compatible, but it's a way to start making connections with people who have similar views and may have a female relative or friend who IS what you are looking for. Even married women often LOVE to matchmake, so if you get to know those old ladies in the pro-life groups and show that you are a good dude, they will be happy to tell their single niece, daughter, etc. about you.
I do agree with you that we need to start making more connections with like-minded people, but I can tell you from daily experience as a 40 year old in a solid red area, there simply aren't women like that who are single anymore. By now, somebody somewhere would have come across said females, but nobody ever has. I assume from your naiveté that you're a Boomer, so here's a little experiment: ask your children and grandchildren (if they're adults) how many single conservative women they know. They will say zero. That's the response that hundreds of thousands of MAGA single men get from family, coworkers, neighbors and acquaintances every day.