Obligatory : I have black friends.

This means nothing to them. It's similar to the saying, everything before the word "but" is bullshit. Your statement now reads like this;

I have black friends, BUT for the first time ever I feel like I just cant do black history month this year. Im exhausted from having "black everything" shoved in my face.

Congratulations at only accomplishing your ability to put your white privilege on full display. You MUST acknowledge the fact that being a civilized functional member of society proves white privilege. You simply can't comprehend the the difficulties of the minority races with your "master" mentalitied brain. It's in your dna after all.

Im not a racist.

Yes you are. You still have your whiteness, so you will always be guilty of privilege

Im not going to feel bad for being white.

This statement proves your privilege. You MUST capitulate to their narrative.

You cant guilt me.

They dont actually want your guilt, they want you destroyed. You will answer for your white privilege.