If your wife agrees to say the traditional wedding vows of: "Will you obey him, and serve him, love, honor, and keep him in sickness and in health? And forsaking all others keep yourself only to him, so long as you both shall live?"
If your fiancee agrees to these wedding vows, your marriage will last. If she doesn't agree to those vows, your wedding won't last. It's simple stuff.
I mean, the situation fucked for men and women. It's too big a problem to immediately solve but I do think we can take steps toward the right direction. Getting rid of communism and its influence in society would go a long way to mending things between men and women IMO. Then sexual liberation next as that is a complete disaster. People need to start teaching morals again instead of hoping morality is just learned by osmosis. Also, wisdom needs to be taught and society needs to respect the wisdom passed on. People need to enforce things through discipline. Total freedom to do anything isn't the right way. But we're all just chugging along best we can.