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posted ago by JeanGrey ago by JeanGrey +3309 / -2

This has been brewing for a while but the political stuff was the nail in the coffin for our relationship. It hurts to say it. I love the guy. But I can't be with someone who has zero fight in them and zero patriotism. I mean with as patriotic as I am now I can't believe it lasted this long. Can't wait to get out there and date REAL manly men lol.

Sorry for this post. I'm just a little sad and needed to vent.

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Toughsky_Shitsky 415 points ago +441 / -26

boyfriend of 11 years

This is the problem, and should have been a huge red flag.

Any tool not willing to step up for 11 years ain't a man.

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ObviatingTyranny 194 points ago +221 / -27

Boom. There it is. Marry the woman or GTFO and stop wasting her time.

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geebeext 114 points ago +150 / -36

Someone doesn't know how unfair the system is to men, then attacks men for not following the system's rules. Dumb

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FUCKCHINA1776 24 points ago +25 / -1

**DING, western women (most) are half of the reason we're in this jam right now. All emotion, no facts or analytics. Voting for libtards and hate of white men. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. They slut it up for 10 yrs and then want the best guy they can find while complaining and not bringing the goods to the table themselves. Again, many not all women. There's shit men out there too,

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zedrexvsyrex 1 point ago +2 / -1

The difference is, shit men were scolded by society into oblivion. That’s why they’re shit.

Women were shit simply because they chose to be, and did so with the full backing of modern society.

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DicksOutForPepe16 5 points ago +5 / -0

Fuck that, be accountable and hold your fellow man accountable. When men stop putting up with shitty women and demand more of themselves, they'll get what they want.

The rising tide lifts all ships and everyone needs to focus on the one thing they can control; themselves.

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zedrexvsyrex 1 point ago +1 / -0

It takes 2 to make a relationship work, and the idealistic mentality that you have is in part to blame for the dating mess we're currently in. Hold your fellow man accountable, sure. But also hold your fellow female accountable too, that's my point. Men are already held accountable; women are NOT. Plus, we also have to factor in that weak men and simps will always exist. By saying for men to control themselves, you're ironically pushing for something that cannot be controlled—other people. If you're gonna push for something like that, then you might as well push for it on both genders (side note: there's only 2 genders). Only blaming men will only get us so far. You'll need to change the culture as well so that women follow suit.

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DicksOutForPepe16 1 point ago +1 / -0

First thing I said was "be accountable."

We seem to agree, in doing so, you control the one thing subject to your influence; yourself.

I go on to say hold others accountable and when I say "fellow man," I mean men and women. The term once referred to humans (2 genders, scoops, terms, balls, tits, etc.).

But if we as men collectively didn't put up with this shit, women would conform to expectations. Yes, even in spite of simps. Simps are used as a means to an end; merely a tool. The same women who violate simps will drop them in a heartbeat for a crack at a man of value, honor, integrity and conviction. The sick irony being that such a man has no time for those women who would preoccupy themselves with using simps.

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ObviatingTyranny 17 points ago +76 / -59

Someone doesn't know that divorce shouldn't even be an option and they are living in an artificial construct that is easily ignored by being principled and surrounding yourself with other principled people.

EDIT:

The destruction of the family is Satan's goal. It's the Communist's goal.

"So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

-Matthew 19:6

For everyone who would mock religion or God, this is the fruit.

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Corona 211 points ago +217 / -6

Yeah, my ex-wife said the exact same thing before she took half my stuff and utterly destroyed my life, but okay.

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Gradymeister 71 points ago +75 / -4

Sad I only have one upvote to give you.

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this_mortal_coil 14 points ago +17 / -3

hear hear

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YourMamma57 24 points ago +24 / -0

Willing to marry, please send picture of boat

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223_Liberty_Tree 1 point ago +29 / -28

you are the leader of the home. if it fails, the blame is solely on you. if you picked the wrong woman, its on you. if you let the relationship rot, its on YOU.

Sack up and take the responsibility and stop blaming women you puny faggots.

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everyman 61 points ago +74 / -13

Marriage is a religious ceremony and the government should just stay out of it.

Why we still force a default binding contract is beyond me. Outdated and unneeded. We should empower women and break the chains of this contract enforced by the evil patriarchy.

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ALargeRock 53 points ago +55 / -2

Fucking finally some good common sense!

The government wasn’t in your baptism, and it wasn’t in my bar mitzvah. It shouldn’t be in our marriages.

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Notaliberal 23 points ago +23 / -0

Comes down to money

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Turtleavacado 12 points ago +15 / -3

The marriage license allows you to take tax credits together, see each other in the hospital and make medical decisions for your spouse if God-forbid someone get hurt, it allows you to inherit life insurance if God-forbid your spouse passes.

I'm sure this list can be extended but you get the point. There are legal benefits just as there are drawbacks. It's a partnership and both ppl have to be aligned in many ways for marriage to make sense.

So many ppl date like idiots and marry someone because they are attracted physically or get fuzzy feelings around that person or have been with them a long time and are scared of change, or because they feel pressured from parents or friends etc.. Those are all terrible reasons to get married. HOWEVER if both ppl understand marriage is a life-long partnership, both people align morally and political worldviews align, and they are planning to raise God-fearing kids into the world then marriage can be a significant asset to both individuals.

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swab_my_ass_china 9 points ago +11 / -2

Because it’s in most cases a massive financial lift to be two people earning together. If you have a good spouse you can be very successful.

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Vox_Dobad 9 points ago +11 / -2

That's a huge "if". Plenty of "good spouses" turn out to be not so.

And who says two people can't earn together outside marriage?

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PhotogPatriot1775 7 points ago +8 / -1

Holy Matrimony is a religious ceremony. Marriage is just a joining of two things. Not saying I disagree with the sentiment, but facts are facts. Religious bindings before God had gone out the window long ago. People married before God, yet FOR entitlement and country alliances. Royal arranged marriages for instance. It's a losing battle if you don't have moral servitude towards God.

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Mintap 2 points ago +6 / -4

Because children's rights need to be secured. Empowering women or men at the expensive of security for children is bad for society.

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everyman 4 points ago +5 / -1

Then agree who gets custody and how much is paid out before you get married. All of this should be settled up front.

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Angerisagift 1 point ago +2 / -1

No, it's way more than a ceremony, religious or secular. It is the fundamental social unit which see s the birth and reading of kids. The state has of course screwed things up, but the future of the nation requires men and women bonding and that involves way more than one afternoon at city hall or a beach or church. And yes, nowadays it has to deal with property and progeny if the marriage fails.

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AlwaysReady15 22 points ago +23 / -1

I appreciate it man

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Glowsticks 4 points ago +4 / -0

Same

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ObviatingTyranny 9 points ago +10 / -1

How did she live her life before she said those things? What was her family like? What were her friends like?

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Heavy_Metal_Patriot 7 points ago +7 / -0

Absolutely!! Every guy thinking about getting married needs to get acquainted with Divorce, Inc before they throw themselves into the trap.

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I_Used_to_be_me 2 points ago +2 / -0

How does one protect themselves from this pre-marriage (other than never getting married)?

Fwiw, I've got some experience and background knowledge with all of this, just from my parents' divorce when I was around 14, and my uncle having once being a family court judge. I know both ends (an "easy," divorce and a hard divorce, from both of these examples). My parents were as easy and cordial as it got. Still burnt my dad financially, since my mom was a housewife. So she got to stay in the house, he moved to a tiny apartment. She owns half the house now, etc. But everything was split pretty fairly, all agreed upon by my parents beforehand, no custody battles over the kids (just me really since my brother was already 18), it was over really quick, and my parents, almost 20 years later, are still friends.

My fiancee's parents was kind of the opposite from what she's told me and pretty rough on her and her siblings. Still, I think both of our experiences made us both a lot more careful, and changed our attitudes about marriage. I think we're less likely to get divorced because of that, but that doesn't mean we're immune... things change. But we've also taken things slow, been together 7 years or so now, engaged for over 2, etc, so we both feel pretty comfortable with our decision to get married... but... yea, the thought of divorce still terrifies me. Even with us both making exactly the same amount riight now, I know that I'd still be the one to get shafted if it were ever to come to divorce. Not sure why we ever had to bring the government into marriage, makes no fucking sense.

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NotoriousCIC 59 points ago +59 / -0

Yeah, buddy, thought I married a Christian conservative chick only to find out she was not who I thought she was, cheated, took thousands of dollars from me, and I only get to see my kids half the time now. Don’t criticize a guy for not wanting to sign up to be screwed over by a woman and the courts.

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EricCharliemella 25 points ago +25 / -0

I'm sorry to hear that man. Sucks when kids are in the mix, and courts always side with the mother. Talk about sexism!

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DisbandTheCIA 7 points ago +13 / -6

Did you have sex before marriage?

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innominata 12 points ago +12 / -0

I didnt have sex after marriage, so there's always that to contend with.

Medical issue, I'm not happy with it, but happy with her. 10 years now

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zigZag590 5 points ago +5 / -0

I think this is one of the biggest issues we have to fix as men for the next generation.

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tashnag_01 4 points ago +4 / -0

BASED!

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Illah88zillah 3 points ago +3 / -0

More people know your right. I'm glad you ssid this

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oldhankdonald 9 points ago +14 / -5

You can never marry if that’s your choice but you have to shit or get off the pot.

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geebeext 8 points ago +9 / -1

I'm not talking about me, we couldn't be happier, we both got lucky early.

But many friends have had their lives destroyed by women that watch the TV and think it's real life and go to destroy their own life and those of their men

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ActualAdult 5 points ago +5 / -0

I have several friends that are in long term loving relationships, shared home ownership, planning their retirement together. Some of them have kids.

They haven't got married. They don't need an aritficial contrived contract to tell them they love each other.

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YOLOSwag_McFartnut 2 points ago +2 / -0

This. Marriage doesn't actually mean shit. From the man's perspective it's literally everything to lose and nothing to gain. Worst deal in the history of deals, possibly ever.

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trump1aj 2 points ago +2 / -0

Why not shit until she gets off the pot?

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uiopy1 -1 points ago +4 / -5

System is definitely skewed to favor women, but get a fucking prenup and then sack up and commit. If she refuses, then she isn't willing to commit either.

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FUCKCHINA1776 8 points ago +8 / -0

Prenups are written on toilet paper. They often times have zero standing. Search the interwebs and you will see.

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geebeext 6 points ago +8 / -2

Not sure if that works anymore tbh. Not talking about myself anyway.

If you want to marry a decent female get a European female, Americans are to poisoned

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FUCKCHINA1776 7 points ago +8 / -1

They don't. A guys only real smart play anymore is to marry a women who makes a good income. She will have skin in the game to make things work. If they don't she makes good money so she won't take you to the cleaners.

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zedrexvsyrex 4 points ago +4 / -0

Women will never ever marry men that make less than them. It just doesn’t happen. That’s extremely rare. The best play is to not get married at all. Get her a ring, call her your wife maybe, but do not sign those God-forsaken papers.

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quell2 1 point ago +2 / -1

Every European except Eastern Europeans is retarded.

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geebeext 0 points ago +1 / -1

Have you been to europe?

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TearofLys -5 points ago +8 / -13

I am a guy, and the it is all stacked hugely in our favor. Women that want families have a pretty small window to make that happen, all the while having to deal with man-boys that just want to fuck them and not marry them, and before they know it, it's too late. One of her great life goals flushed down the toilet because she fell in love with the wrong guy.

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geebeext 14 points ago +15 / -1

Yeah get married to the wrong woman and watch everything you value get destroyed. I've seen it enough times.

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FUCKCHINA1776 14 points ago +15 / -1

You sound like a white knight with little to no experience with women. You sure yo have the wrong forum? Guess what, if a woman starts dating at 18 she has plenty of time to figure out who the smart marriage material guys are. Unless she's dumb enough to date the same guy for 17+ years. The women who find out it's too late are generally leftist libtards who ride the caulk carousel for a good decade and a half and then try and find a quality guy. The problem is that the quality guys are taken and the ones left know they're ho's and trash.

You sound like these very women. Making idiotic excuses.

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Troof 4 points ago +4 / -0

Lol. Caulk carousel.

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trump1aj 2 points ago +2 / -0

If she’s gonna ride it may as well be yours

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randomusers239874 2 points ago +2 / -0

"Eventually you realize she was never really yours, it was just your turn."

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mrxforsenate19909902 5 points ago +5 / -0

Difference is she isn't on the hook to lose everything she owns.

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ActualAdult 2 points ago +3 / -1

On the flip side, men have to deal with women wanting a family in the small window they have available, whether the man wants it or not. If she thinks he can pay, she'll have the child.

Then there are the men that want a family, find a woman that wants a family, have a family then.. she drops him. No more access to the kids, but fuck yes he's going to have to pay for them.

Sure, there are also the men that pump & dump. There are also laws requiring them to pay for the children they've created. Good luck finding the laws against paternity fraud, let alone a DA willing to prosecute it.

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TearofLys 1 point ago +1 / -0

That is a peril, and you need to be mindful of that. My advice would be to only date women who don't want to have kids if you are anti-family. Leave those who do to find guys that will give them that family. Keep her trapped with you, she will either trap you back with an unwanted child that will likely drive you apart, or, as I pointed out originally, you will deprive her of something deeply important to her, as once she is over 30, that window is basically shut.

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gamephreak5 2 points ago +2 / -0

What woman today has a life goal of becoming a mother and house wife? NONE.

Why do you think millions of babies are killed every year?

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TearofLys 1 point ago +1 / -0

If none of them have that goal, then why do millions of them get married and have kids every year? I would say of the women I know, most want that. But that is all beside the point. My statement was directed towards men, not women. If you are with a woman in her 20s and you know she wants a family and you don't, then let her go so she can find someone who can give her what she wants before its too late for her. To not do it is just cruel.

You should also spend time thinking about what you really want from life, and where you see yourself in five, ten, twenty years. Are you planning to be that 50 year old guy in the nightclub chasing 20-year old tail, or do you see yourself with a family of your own? What about when you are 70?

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KimJung-Un 11 points ago +12 / -1

That's retarded. I'm married but I understand why men wouldn't want to marry these days. The sheer number of whores out there plus the fact that the courts hate us doesn't help someone being convinced it's a good thing for them.

The DS went after marriage and the relationship between men and women for a reason.

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Peachykeen74 3 points ago +4 / -1

Hopefully you know if a woman is good or not. Gotta get to know her personality and character. Look at her family and friends, observe her priorities. You’ll know.

I told my husband he had 18 months to figure it out from the point of our first “this is it” phone call. He proposed with 2 days left til I was gonna break up with him 🤣

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ActualAdult 5 points ago +5 / -0

If my nephew told me his girlfriend had given him 18 months to propose or she'd drop him, I'd tell him to drop her straight away.

Either you like someone or you don't. Marriage is entirely irrelevant to this.

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igolfohio 4 points ago +4 / -0

I called off my engagement because as soon as a ring was on her finger, she completely changed. Became extremely controlling and combative. It was her second engagement but never married. The guy before me figured it out too.

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Alloutwar 2 points ago +3 / -1

Art of the Deal.

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BidenBuhtSecks 9 points ago +14 / -5

Why marry? So this woman that clearly has no respect for him can divorce rape him as she walks away?

Let me translate woman speak for you:

"As patriotic as I am now I can't believe it lasted this long." = I finally got myself to a place that I am no longer financially dependent upon him.

It doesn't take 11 years to realize someone has no fight in them. You should have a good idea within 11 minutes.

She takes no responsibility whatsoever. The "real" men she wants aren't going to have anything to do with her.

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FUCKCHINA1776 11 points ago +12 / -1

Ding. Women have men sized up in the first date or two. It doesn't take 11 yrs. She's part of the problem too.

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ciemPepe 1 point ago +3 / -2

no you defending a Biden cuck?

Please I bet you don't like it when women say "all men are the same" so don't assume all women are the same.

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quell2 3 points ago +3 / -0

Where do you see him defending the Biden fag? They can both suck.

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ciemPepe 1 point ago +1 / -0

yeah, you are right he did not defend the Biden fag but he DID insult the patriot lady. He is just projecting his own issues with women on the girl, he doesn't even know her in real life.

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zedrexvsyrex 1 point ago +1 / -0

You were raised by a single mom.

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ciemPepe 1 point ago +1 / -0

trump_says_wrong.gif

I was raised by a strong dad and a loving mother, perfect balance. They are still together after more than 30 years of marriage. I follow their example and I am married too, 7 years this year. Best years of my life.

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zedrexvsyrex 1 point ago +1 / -0

Then you're brainwashed bro lmao there's nothing else to it. Just because you (think that you) have a good woman doesn't mean that all women are. In fact, if you take you're head out of the sand, you'll find that the vast majority of women are utter shit.

The realization of this was the first and original redpill that started the counterculture backlash against the decadence and depravity of/caused by liberalism.

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ciemPepe 1 point ago +1 / -0

ok incel

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zigZag590 5 points ago +5 / -0

Lol man I remember back in 2013 when stories like this were the craziest culture war issues we had to contend with... Then boom...

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Ikindoflikemydog 3 points ago +5 / -2

She’s a guy so...

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content-alphabet 47 points ago +47 / -0

🤭 but true

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Forty_Five 46 points ago +47 / -1

I'm sure he'll be much happier in his new relationship as a cock sucking bottom.

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Cesare_Borgia 23 points ago +25 / -2

Shit or get off the pot.

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Haitianbychoice360 22 points ago +22 / -0

PREACH

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PotatoJoe 166 points ago +167 / -1

Don’t be sad. It was liberation day. I dated a lefty female and it took a few months to undo the damage she caused. They are walking mental land mines

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BofaDeez 57 points ago +57 / -0

can confirm, man speaks truth.

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Johnny_Dangerously 32 points ago +32 / -0

Yup, they go BOOM

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partbearpartpede 32 points ago +32 / -0

They really are! When I broke up with mine I couldn't believe the emotional instability he had. He lived in my apartment and he refused the leave for a while.

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TwoBallCureAll 23 points ago +23 / -0

WTF?? I hope you removed him with a cattle prod to the nuts

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partbearpartpede 24 points ago +24 / -0

Haha maybe I should of. But it oddly worked out in my favor, was moving across country and it was nice having someone pay half the rent to save money for the move.

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TwoBallCureAll 1 point ago +1 / -0

Oh, it sounded liked he wasn't paying rent.

Nonetheless, please, try not to do this again. It's very easy to get trapped in a situation like this. I've seen it happen to some girls I've known. The negative physiological impact is waaaayyyyy worse than the financial impact.

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Reddinatored 13 points ago +13 / -0

Implies liberals are not geldings without gonads

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TwoBallCureAll 1 point ago +1 / -0

Very true.

That said, a high voltage shock to the crotch makes for a bad day regardless of anatomy or preferred gender!!

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Palazzolo1 2 points ago +2 / -0

Ouch...

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Leatherwood 11 points ago +12 / -1

NOT ONLY THAT, ALPHA MALES ARE SO MUCH BETTER, IN EVERY WAY, THAT THERE IS NO COMPARISON. YOU WILL NEVER LOOK BACK.

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FUCKCHINA1776 6 points ago +6 / -0

This is true. I just got done with one. I'm mostly immune to them now. Libtards put out but they are not reliable or stable partners.

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Londonrain 122 points ago +122 / -0

where is our singlemaga.win? lol

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Johnfox13 42 points ago +42 / -0

u/doggos u/fbi I know you guys are very busy, but could we get a SingleMaga.Win?

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excaliboor -21 points ago +18 / -39

They're busy banning people who call for actual Patriots to protect the country from criminals.

Did I tell you about the time I got banned for posting public information? :) "Can't give the FEDs ammo to crash the site!"

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DomTullipso 17 points ago +18 / -1

No, you didn't. So either tell us what public information got you banned or quit bitching.

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Johnfox13 24 points ago +24 / -0

I’m sure there would be plenty of cat fishing but, still preferable to using those god awful Silicon Valley apps

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kt524 9 points ago +9 / -0

There was a Trump dating site a year after the election and it was pretty much bots and catfishes.

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Jabblemonkey1 110 points ago +111 / -1

You didn't have a boyfriend.

You had a girlfriend.

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Skogin 60 points ago +60 / -0

Grabbed him by the pussy.

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SellTheSun 27 points ago +27 / -0

I heard he let her do it

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Gr8wh1teknight 8 points ago +8 / -0

Bought a futon or something like that

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KlunniClowns 75 points ago +75 / -0

Look your self in the mirror, since you haven't been able to in a long time. Congratulations!! You've been set free. Regroup, heal, get into The Word of God and that right man will come along!

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Londonrain 18 points ago +18 / -0

this!

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Chaospyke 45 points ago +45 / -0

Cuz we (Christians) don't worship Trump. We respect him, we acknowledge his flaws, and there's a lot to acknowledge, but the man fought for his country and got dragged through the mud horribly for doing so.

Hell, King David, the man after God's own heart, slept with a man's wife, then killed said man. Everyone is flawed. I've never cheated on my wife(never married) but I'm no more righteous an individual than DJT. Its not about DJT, its about God.

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this_mortal_coil 7 points ago +8 / -1

A man's soul can change. We are all imperfect vessels. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

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Hardcouer 5 points ago +6 / -1

Said man was one of his elite bodyguard, one of his very best, most trusted men. Uriah was one of the Thirty. (Sometimes persisting and reading the lists of names in the OT brings up something really interesting!)

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maleitch 17 points ago +17 / -0

Says the group who just elected a guy who touches kids, actually rapes women, and hung out with actual klansmen then lectures the country about our cognitive dissonance.

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Quitecontrary 1 point ago +1 / -0

This is where we’re we get go into the hole of anti Christian gobble gook, and loose all credibility. Stick to the facts. Same crap was said of DJT.

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Trump2024 12 points ago +12 / -0

DEPORT FAGGOT SHILL DETECTED

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KlunniClowns 8 points ago +8 / -0

How is DJT being worshipped by my comment here on this post or any other post?

Also, a man of sin Trump is as am I, is there no redeeming quality then? For what is Christianity but the ultimate account of redeeming the sin sick soul.

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NotQuiteHuman 2 points ago +2 / -0

I smell projection.

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Araket 52 points ago +52 / -0

I get it. I just told a guitarist I have been playing with for over ten tears to piss off. I can't abide the hypocrisy. It is insane to listen to people who are so brainwashed by the MSM that they can completely change core beliefs and convictions at the drop of a dime, on a weekly basis sometimes, and deny they ever stood for whatever the subject of the week was. When this guy has the fucking gall to say he believes in justice it makes me want to choke him. After years of trying to open this guy's eyes, he now believes that there is absolutely no proof of election fraud in 2020 except a few small cases done by Republicans and that the courts have every right to refuse cases because "all the proof the right has is made up lies". This while completely ignoring anything I send him that is actual proof of the fraud. It is truly amazing how fucking stupid these people are. Dumbass can consider the events at the Capitol to be right-wing terrorism while completely ignoring CHAZ, PAZ, years of violent riots in Portland (his home fucking town), and even the recent Motel that was commandeered at hatchet point in Olympia, saying all of that as peaceful and excusable. Fuck these people! Really. OK. Rant done. Sorry for yelling on your thread :)

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DaninElkhart 14 points ago +14 / -0

I regret that I can give only one Updoot! Thank you for that rant. 👍🏼

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FUCKCHINA1776 10 points ago +10 / -0

Dude, it's in their nature to not care about facts. They're freaks. I told a friend from HS to fuck off and never contact me again. Had enough of the shit. Move on from him. Dude is toxic cancer. Don't look back as hard as it may be.

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Skogin 9 points ago +10 / -1

The only action at the capitol building was a False Flag, all the rest was peaceful patriotic protest, and it was beautiful.

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this_mortal_coil 4 points ago +4 / -0

I agree. It was the most peaceful feeling to be surrounded by thousands and thousands of people standing up, being friendly and supporting each other. I could do that every weekend.

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Alloutwar 4 points ago +4 / -0

Currently not speaking with my best friend of 20 years.She is usually very intelligent and logical - except when it comes to politics.Weve had a few skirmishes - the she will stay away for a while and re-engage with snark.Literally told me she does'nt want to discuss politics - after she has thrown her stones. Last straw- she and my based Mom got into the election on November 4th - she called to wish my mom a happy birthday.Then a few days ago she made a remark about my mom having dimentia - joke she says.That was the last straw.Especially coming from someone with an autistic child and mental illness 8n her family.She should know better.TBH I will be happy never to speak to her again.I think we don't have much in common anymore anyway.

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DudePlayingaDude 47 points ago +47 / -0

Wait, he always had TDS and this was the last straw? It's okay. Love is a strange animal.

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JeanGrey [S] 71 points ago +73 / -2

I know, I know....I can't believe it took this long. My problem is I am fiercely loyal and believe in true love through Thick and thin. But we met young and back then I was more of a libtard. And believe me his TDS has caused major blow out fights between us. So finally, FINALLY I had enough. I know love is ridiculous lol.

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DudePlayingaDude 27 points ago +27 / -0

Well, good on you for trying, at least. Sounds like you gave it your all. Now you are free!

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Side-o-Beef_Curtains 21 points ago +22 / -1

A lot of churches have young adult organizations of one kind or another. My daughter just met her future husband in one last year. I felt kind of cheated, honestly, because I always wanted to mess with a boy that wanted to date her. You know, like clean a shotgun while we talk kinda thing. I got screwed, this kid is so perfect it's like I made him in a lab specifically to marry my daughter. My daughter's friend group tells me all the college age maga kids are meeting this way to avoid the club scene and tinder apps. Apparently it's the way to go.

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Skogin 9 points ago +9 / -0

this kid is so perfect it's like I made him in a lab specifically to marry

I’m not saying you should be paranoid, but you should definitely be paranoid.

😉

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Side-o-Beef_Curtains 6 points ago +6 / -0

Oh, I am paranoid. They've been together a year and I spent the first six months realllllly checking into him. Solid kid, good job, good family, 25 and almost paid off student loan debt. Treats her like a princess when he thinks nobody is looking. There is a large percentage of young people that have seen clown world and rejected it.

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Skogin 3 points ago +3 / -0

👌👍

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FrmrAmericanRepublic 16 points ago +16 / -0

You did the hard part -- dumping the guy.

Your future is bright, even if you don't feel like it is at the moment. Let the emotions wash over you and flow out to the sea. Every bit of this trial will slowly flake off of you, until you emerge shiny and new.

Loyalty is honorable. Your ex was not. Given that men want women who stand by them, you are highly sought after and valuable.

I sincerely wish you the best, and I don't have to hope you have a good future - I already know you're pulling ahead every day without regressive thinking pulling you down.

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Kael 2 points ago +2 / -0

This right here!!

Excellent comment pede

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this_mortal_coil 1 point ago +1 / -0

I fought all of that for years. I stayed with her thinking it would get better, or that it would good for the kids to have stability. Only you can't have one person really working and the other not or, in my case, trying to completely dismantle your support network. Sometimes love just can't fix it.

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Sand313man 1 point ago +1 / -0

Women fall in love easy after sex. It’s biological.

You will feel same way when the guy has character and even more so, forgetting what came before.

Pick a gentleman that loves himself, country and family.

And you will experience true love.

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LookFatty 40 points ago +40 / -0

Single in Me. Dont be scared of user name. Fit Patriot

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SilentGuardian 42 points ago +42 / -0

Go get her fatty!

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Dingus 8 points ago +9 / -1

OK but dont dangle a twinkie in front of him!

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LookFatty 1 point ago +1 / -0

Mmmmmmm...... Twinkie...

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1st_Covfefe 36 points ago +36 / -0

50 shades of patriotism.

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BaltimoreCrew 14 points ago +14 / -0

We need a meme of MAGA women whip’n fools with the butt of their flintlocks.

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ZhouqiWu 34 points ago +34 / -0

Pedes Dating Site Has Opened for business!

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Trumpticusprime 33 points ago +33 / -0

We need dating.win

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Side-o-Beef_Curtains 22 points ago +22 / -0

Didn't we get enough dick pics this election cycle?

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Skogin 7 points ago +7 / -0

I choose truth over facts

and M&Ms over Skittles!

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AedraLord 3 points ago +3 / -0

Only leftists do that shit

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Side-o-Beef_Curtains 1 point ago +1 / -0

Unless it's hunter biden leaks 🤮

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ViduusMAGA 1 point ago +1 / -0

Check your DMs

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JoinTheDiscussion 31 points ago +31 / -0

Single in MI here )

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Wrexxis780 13 points ago +14 / -1

Michigan is a liberal shithole for dating

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JoinTheDiscussion 15 points ago +15 / -0

Tell me about it!

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Wrexxis780 15 points ago +15 / -0

Yup. Every woman is either an open relationship seeking whore, a fatass, rainbow hair, 420 junkie, has a few kids, severe TDS, has a penis, or is one of those “I must travel the world!” Types of people. So few decent women.

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thewagegapisntreal 12 points ago +12 / -0

I remember 15 years ago, when I was graduating high school, and a bunch of my friends and acquaintances were that last type of person. "I have to get out of this town as soon as possible." What is that? I've hated it ever since, it made me determined to stay here and love where I'm from.

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NotQuiteHuman 7 points ago +7 / -0

one of those “I must travel the world!” Types of people

What do you expect, after an entire childhood of being told that just wanting a peaceful, family-driven life in one's own hometown is unacceptable for a woman?

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JoinTheDiscussion 5 points ago +5 / -0

haha holy shit.. you hit the nail on the head!

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Wrexxis780 4 points ago +4 / -0

I feel like 95% of women I see fall into one of those groups. It’s sad.

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excaliboor 4 points ago +10 / -6

Start going to church.

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Trump2024 8 points ago +8 / -0

And the firing range

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Ballind 7 points ago +7 / -0

Even the liberal shit hole women in liberal shit hole cities want conservative men. I fired up bumble for a quick shit in nyc a while back before covid with "conservative" in my profile and literally had models messaging me after just a few minutes on the app.

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NotQuiteHuman 8 points ago +8 / -0

Did they ask for your credit card number?

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Wrexxis780 6 points ago +6 / -0

Duh. Nobody likes liberal men. Not even liberal women.

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Forty_Five 30 points ago +30 / -0

I managed to redpill my ultra liberal wife. Yes, she still has some liberal views but understands the media is bullshit propaganda and Biden is illegitimate.

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Johnfox13 11 points ago +11 / -0

I am jealous my wife is still blue pilled despite numerous red pills dinners :/

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Forty_Five 23 points ago +23 / -0

What changed her tune was me showing her actual videos that ran counter to what the media was telling her. She's listened to NPR religiously for years. When they tell her one thing I come back with video to the contrary. She actually took the time to watch Trump's speech at the capital to see that he in no way incited a riot.

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FUCKCHINA1776 6 points ago +6 / -0

She sounds like a good one. At least she has the respect to watch the content and decide for herself. True libtards won't do that or dismiss it. It's a freaking cult.

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bolonaro 3 points ago +3 / -0

I redpilled my wife by just making fun of how theatrical mainstream media is. It's irritating even for normies. Over time when you are proved correct time after time ... People get naturally red pilled.

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Kael 1 point ago +1 / -0

Only if they stand at the outskirts of the media bubble.

Can’t see it’s a bubble if you’re deep in the middle.

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Quato 26 points ago +26 / -0

If he's unwilling to fight for the country, why would you want him raising your kids?

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MAGA_mantis 21 points ago +21 / -0

Plenty of freedom boners for you on here! Lolol. Not me tho, I'm married.

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Aofie 6 points ago +6 / -0

Respect

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Xinnie_the_Pooh 21 points ago +21 / -0

You should marry me so I can get out of Canada lol

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Bazzellle 21 points ago +21 / -0

I vote for this one. Ya know he will be nice. I think it is genetic with Canadians.

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Side-o-Beef_Curtains 9 points ago +9 / -0

But can he cook poutine, though?

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Bazzellle 5 points ago +5 / -0

Had to look that up and then I saw it came with a warning that it clogs arteries!!!!

If he can make that, definitely a keeper.

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Raposa 2 points ago +2 / -0

Well that just doesn't sit well with your username somehow

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Side-o-Beef_Curtains 2 points ago +2 / -0

"I think the gravy has turned"

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FUCKCHINA1776 3 points ago +3 / -0

Unless French Canadian. They are DB's.

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Raposa 2 points ago +2 / -0

Is this a common sentiment? My guy basically said the same thing. We're going through so much BS down here, just forget how rough it is up there. Just know that if you find a girl and visit, you'll have to request gravy on the side with your fries, but you'll enjoy the warmer weather at least. Also if you wanna blend in, no one knows what a sea-doo is! It's a jet-ski.

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Donger-Lord2 0 points ago +1 / -1

Unless you come with syrup, I don’t know if she will do it.

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WeirdoSlayer 20 points ago +20 / -0

I hope there's a patriot woman out there for me. 2020 was a huge heartbreaker. i still feel dead inside.

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jkatzz 15 points ago +15 / -0

Good Luck On your Journey. MAGA men are easy to find these days. They'll be the ones not wearing a mask.

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guitarmastershredder 14 points ago +14 / -0

You are liberated now baby. You will find a great man. If you go online dating just list you are a conservative chick. You will find LOTS of great guys with solid values and great morals. Maybe some guys a little rough around the edges, maybe likes to shoot guns and/or rock and roll sometimes ;-) Strong proud guys. If you put it out there that you want a REAL man and not some sissy faggy Biden boy, then you will find a GOOD man. Also PRAY! Ask God to give you wisdom and courage ;-)!

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dudleydorightorwrong 13 points ago +13 / -0

I think allot of people have lost friends or family or at least had their relationships damaged during this time. I was called a nazi by a family member. Hang in there. The sun will rise tomorrow.

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Fangerang 13 points ago +13 / -0

As the top comment pointed out, if after 11 years of being together you still aren't married, then it seems like he never had any intention of marriage. So it sounds like you cut your losses. I know it still sucks but good for you having the strength to do it after so long.

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Logan_W_Logan 13 points ago +13 / -0

MAGAdating.win

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NotQuiteHuman 4 points ago +4 / -0

This probably wasn't your intention, but "Hey babe, you're about to have some amazing sex and you don't even know it" is kinda weird.

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Counterforce1 2 points ago +2 / -0

🧐😳😬😅🤣😇👈🏿👌🙏🙏🙏

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FUSnowflake 12 points ago +12 / -0

You'd better hope this site doesn't allow private messages, or you're gonna get swamped with marriage proposals.../wry>

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Donger-Lord2 0 points ago +1 / -1

It does.

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FUSnowflake 3 points ago +3 / -0

!!

I learn something new every day.

(Condolences, btw, breakups hurt, even if you're the one starting it.) Give it time, and look for an upgrade on him.

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RealWomenLoveTrump 12 points ago +12 / -0

I met my man on match.com almost two years ago. My info was clear that I wanted a very masculine man who knew his own mind and was old school in his demeanor. We messaged just one time, met the next day. We talked politics within an hour, once we realized we had a great physical connection. I'm very strong in my opinions and beliefs, but he is even stronger and is therefore not intimidated by me in any way. My ex was like a little baby girl child in the face of my opinions.

My man is tall, broad shouldered, protective of me like I'm a treasure, and very assertive in the important ways (wink wink!) He walks around so confident, he's a little arrogant, and I'm glad of that.

Men that are really MEN can come off as assholes sometimes, but I would much prefer that than a man who is too feminine and comes off as bitchy! Just a little insight from a recent MAGA-MAN hunter!

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Trump2024 6 points ago +6 / -0

It really makes me happy to hear you talking up your man so well. It's going to work out just fine for you two. 😀👍

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RealWomenLoveTrump 6 points ago +6 / -0

I agree. It's been such a blessing being his woman, it's still amazes me that this strong, intelligent, gorgeous man wants me. I think the biggest reason that is so is because of how I look at him, how I talk to him, how I treat him. I treat him like the amazing catch he is, as he does me. We're happy as ducks in water. Never give up, pedes, and never settle!

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Trump2024 3 points ago +3 / -0

You sound like you're perfect for each other and a model of success for the single pedes here. Good on ya, sister pede!

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Basedcubandude 12 points ago +13 / -1

Hypergamy always wins.

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Barbs 3 points ago +3 / -0

Does it, if he never really stepped up to the plate? This is his failure, not hers.

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TwitterIsTrash 11 points ago +11 / -0

Yeah, as a woman myself, I don’t blame you. After this election I’ve made it a standard for any guy I date to be conservative. And I mean traditional conservative with moral values, not the establishment crook kind with their warmongering. Any guy who leans liberal or has TDS is not compatible with me. At all.

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freebirdie 10 points ago +10 / -0

From one patriot woman to another, well done. Frankly I've no clue how you could be attracted to a leftist man, but to each their own. Did he make you kill spiders and watch rom-coms? Sorry, I tease you a bit, but soon you'll wonder how you stood him for so long. Take it from me, better to be on your own than in bed with a commie.

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Apersonofinterest 10 points ago +10 / -0

Stalked my ex-wife’s FB and saw that she is all BLM Face Mask wearing Leftie now. She was always a hippy but now she’s completely unbearable.

That marriage was doomed from the start.

We divorced before Trump and once Trump came along, I was full on MAGA. That wouldn’t have worked at all.

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Rusty_Nut 10 points ago +10 / -0

You're not gonna regret your decision my dear. I hear others in you shoes, once settled in with a patriot, are frequently heard saying ... "I've tried everything, but a Magna man does it best!"

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MAGARyLue 9 points ago +9 / -0

You’ll find someone way better. We need dating.win

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vote_for_MAGA_2020 9 points ago +9 / -0

I hear ya. At least it didn't go farther than that. I'm married to a far-left anti-Trumper. I'm stuck lol. I was really apolitical when we first met. it wasn't until after we were married that i got into politics. We get along great, we just can't talk about politics.

And we don't have fights...she gets upset while I laugh my ass off X'D

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Raritat 1 point ago +1 / -0

One day you will hear and learn something completely appalling and you will question your life choices.

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rentfREEEE_since2016 6 points ago +6 / -0

careful boys. Catfish come in all shades and colors. lol. just sayin'

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xdrunkagainx 5 points ago +5 / -0

San Diego checking in...💪🇺🇸

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Mamapedia 5 points ago +5 / -0

Hang in there and do things you like to do. You never know what's around the corner! Wishing you well.

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Swift_phoenix 5 points ago +5 / -0

Yuppp. I broke up with my ex of 3.5 years. She got more and more rabid liberal. No good. No go.

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Barbs 4 points ago +4 / -0

Good luck!

I got extremely lucky that while my wife was a bit late to the station, she eventually hopped on the train with me.

We both started out as Bernie people, and even when he ran this last time she wanted nothing to do with him. She took his selling us out way harder than I did, because he was what got her into politics. She had been apolitical before then, so getting sold down the river by a politician was a new experience for her.

Just give yourself a bit of time to get over him, and to figure out what you want. It’s tough but it gets easier every day.

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H_Guderian 4 points ago +4 / -0

That's why he's a Boy-friend. A Man wouldn't let a woman go to waste.

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Canadiannomore 4 points ago +4 / -0

Not too sound rude but 8 months ago you wrote "I'm lucky that the man in my life is a total Trump supporting, gun toting, strong and masculine manly man who wants to lead.

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SimianPilot 2 points ago +2 / -0

Odd, isn’t it? Maybe a shill that forgot the character once? Otherwise seems normal.

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content-alphabet 4 points ago +4 / -0

Conservative dating app

https://wearerighter.com/

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partbearpartpede 2 points ago +2 / -0

Have you used it before?

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content-alphabet 0 points ago +1 / -1

No.

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LindaSarsourCunt 4 points ago +4 / -0

You'll find a great man before you know it!

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SteersBeersandQueers 4 points ago +4 / -0

You did the right thing.

ANYONE who believes that is going to ruin your life!!

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jsphere256 3 points ago +5 / -2

unzip

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FucKamala 3 points ago +3 / -0

Yeet that soybitch off a balcony

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AmericanJedi 3 points ago +3 / -0

It was a good move. Be strong!

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SuperDuperHypersonic 3 points ago +3 / -0

Womp x2

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Handypatriot 3 points ago +3 / -0

Good on you, soon you won’t have to buy dinner anymore

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IowanMaga 3 points ago +3 / -0

Oh my gosh, i'm so sorry to hear tha--; so your single then?

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Food4thought 3 points ago +3 / -0

Life is funny that way...