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posted ago by JeanGrey ago by JeanGrey +3309 / -2

This has been brewing for a while but the political stuff was the nail in the coffin for our relationship. It hurts to say it. I love the guy. But I can't be with someone who has zero fight in them and zero patriotism. I mean with as patriotic as I am now I can't believe it lasted this long. Can't wait to get out there and date REAL manly men lol.

Sorry for this post. I'm just a little sad and needed to vent.

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Toughsky_Shitsky 415 points ago +441 / -26

boyfriend of 11 years

This is the problem, and should have been a huge red flag.

Any tool not willing to step up for 11 years ain't a man.

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ObviatingTyranny 194 points ago +221 / -27

Boom. There it is. Marry the woman or GTFO and stop wasting her time.

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geebeext 114 points ago +150 / -36

Someone doesn't know how unfair the system is to men, then attacks men for not following the system's rules. Dumb

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FUCKCHINA1776 24 points ago +25 / -1

**DING, western women (most) are half of the reason we're in this jam right now. All emotion, no facts or analytics. Voting for libtards and hate of white men. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. They slut it up for 10 yrs and then want the best guy they can find while complaining and not bringing the goods to the table themselves. Again, many not all women. There's shit men out there too,

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zedrexvsyrex 1 point ago +2 / -1

The difference is, shit men were scolded by society into oblivion. That’s why they’re shit.

Women were shit simply because they chose to be, and did so with the full backing of modern society.

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ObviatingTyranny 17 points ago +76 / -59

Someone doesn't know that divorce shouldn't even be an option and they are living in an artificial construct that is easily ignored by being principled and surrounding yourself with other principled people.

EDIT:

The destruction of the family is Satan's goal. It's the Communist's goal.

"So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

-Matthew 19:6

For everyone who would mock religion or God, this is the fruit.

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Corona 211 points ago +217 / -6

Yeah, my ex-wife said the exact same thing before she took half my stuff and utterly destroyed my life, but okay.

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NotoriousCIC 59 points ago +59 / -0

Yeah, buddy, thought I married a Christian conservative chick only to find out she was not who I thought she was, cheated, took thousands of dollars from me, and I only get to see my kids half the time now. Don’t criticize a guy for not wanting to sign up to be screwed over by a woman and the courts.

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deleted 25 points ago +25 / -0
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tashnag_01 4 points ago +4 / -0

BASED!

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Illah88zillah 3 points ago +3 / -0

More people know your right. I'm glad you ssid this

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oldhankdonald 9 points ago +14 / -5

You can never marry if that’s your choice but you have to shit or get off the pot.

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geebeext 8 points ago +9 / -1

I'm not talking about me, we couldn't be happier, we both got lucky early.

But many friends have had their lives destroyed by women that watch the TV and think it's real life and go to destroy their own life and those of their men

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ActualAdult 5 points ago +5 / -0

I have several friends that are in long term loving relationships, shared home ownership, planning their retirement together. Some of them have kids.

They haven't got married. They don't need an aritficial contrived contract to tell them they love each other.

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trump1aj 2 points ago +2 / -0

Why not shit until she gets off the pot?

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uiopy1 -1 points ago +4 / -5

System is definitely skewed to favor women, but get a fucking prenup and then sack up and commit. If she refuses, then she isn't willing to commit either.

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FUCKCHINA1776 8 points ago +8 / -0

Prenups are written on toilet paper. They often times have zero standing. Search the interwebs and you will see.

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geebeext 6 points ago +8 / -2

Not sure if that works anymore tbh. Not talking about myself anyway.

If you want to marry a decent female get a European female, Americans are to poisoned

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TearofLys -5 points ago +8 / -13

I am a guy, and the it is all stacked hugely in our favor. Women that want families have a pretty small window to make that happen, all the while having to deal with man-boys that just want to fuck them and not marry them, and before they know it, it's too late. One of her great life goals flushed down the toilet because she fell in love with the wrong guy.

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geebeext 14 points ago +15 / -1

Yeah get married to the wrong woman and watch everything you value get destroyed. I've seen it enough times.

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FUCKCHINA1776 14 points ago +15 / -1

You sound like a white knight with little to no experience with women. You sure yo have the wrong forum? Guess what, if a woman starts dating at 18 she has plenty of time to figure out who the smart marriage material guys are. Unless she's dumb enough to date the same guy for 17+ years. The women who find out it's too late are generally leftist libtards who ride the caulk carousel for a good decade and a half and then try and find a quality guy. The problem is that the quality guys are taken and the ones left know they're ho's and trash.

You sound like these very women. Making idiotic excuses.

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mrxforsenate19909902 5 points ago +5 / -0

Difference is she isn't on the hook to lose everything she owns.

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ActualAdult 2 points ago +3 / -1

On the flip side, men have to deal with women wanting a family in the small window they have available, whether the man wants it or not. If she thinks he can pay, she'll have the child.

Then there are the men that want a family, find a woman that wants a family, have a family then.. she drops him. No more access to the kids, but fuck yes he's going to have to pay for them.

Sure, there are also the men that pump & dump. There are also laws requiring them to pay for the children they've created. Good luck finding the laws against paternity fraud, let alone a DA willing to prosecute it.

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gamephreak5 2 points ago +2 / -0

What woman today has a life goal of becoming a mother and house wife? NONE.

Why do you think millions of babies are killed every year?

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KimJung-Un 11 points ago +12 / -1

That's retarded. I'm married but I understand why men wouldn't want to marry these days. The sheer number of whores out there plus the fact that the courts hate us doesn't help someone being convinced it's a good thing for them.

The DS went after marriage and the relationship between men and women for a reason.

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Peachykeen74 3 points ago +4 / -1

Hopefully you know if a woman is good or not. Gotta get to know her personality and character. Look at her family and friends, observe her priorities. You’ll know.

I told my husband he had 18 months to figure it out from the point of our first “this is it” phone call. He proposed with 2 days left til I was gonna break up with him 🤣

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ActualAdult 5 points ago +5 / -0

If my nephew told me his girlfriend had given him 18 months to propose or she'd drop him, I'd tell him to drop her straight away.

Either you like someone or you don't. Marriage is entirely irrelevant to this.

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Alloutwar 2 points ago +3 / -1

Art of the Deal.

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BidenBuhtSecks 9 points ago +14 / -5

Why marry? So this woman that clearly has no respect for him can divorce rape him as she walks away?

Let me translate woman speak for you:

"As patriotic as I am now I can't believe it lasted this long." = I finally got myself to a place that I am no longer financially dependent upon him.

It doesn't take 11 years to realize someone has no fight in them. You should have a good idea within 11 minutes.

She takes no responsibility whatsoever. The "real" men she wants aren't going to have anything to do with her.

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FUCKCHINA1776 11 points ago +12 / -1

Ding. Women have men sized up in the first date or two. It doesn't take 11 yrs. She's part of the problem too.

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ciemPepe 1 point ago +3 / -2

no you defending a Biden cuck?

Please I bet you don't like it when women say "all men are the same" so don't assume all women are the same.

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quell2 3 points ago +3 / -0

Where do you see him defending the Biden fag? They can both suck.

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zedrexvsyrex 1 point ago +1 / -0

You were raised by a single mom.

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zigZag590 5 points ago +5 / -0

Lol man I remember back in 2013 when stories like this were the craziest culture war issues we had to contend with... Then boom...

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Ikindoflikemydog 3 points ago +5 / -2

She’s a guy so...

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content-alphabet 47 points ago +47 / -0

🤭 but true

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Forty_Five 46 points ago +47 / -1

I'm sure he'll be much happier in his new relationship as a cock sucking bottom.

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Cesare_Borgia 23 points ago +25 / -2

Shit or get off the pot.

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Haitianbychoice360 22 points ago +22 / -0

PREACH